Yeah it’s pretty stupid but not really all that out of character. Sam has always been a pretty dense guy and both the king and his brother lust after him. He’s established to be completely straight so I think he doesn’t really see anything wrong with the situation since they were probably really close as kids. And also, he didn’t know Geon was watching. At this point, Sam doesn’t really give a shit anymore and the more Geon is turned off by him, the better for him. Whether he kills him then himself and all that, Sam does not care.
the thing is, he is already a victim, this would be easy if he was literally not abused by him before. atp his only way of keeping dignity is keeping his high horse n not folding down to be basically "queen", he also does not believe his feelings r valid n thinks he will grow out of it therefore he will not be feeding them or supporting them. +he is a man afterall, being bitches does take a punch on his pride
Not only is he doing that but he's acted different since forever ago. He's always kept CG at arms length. He ran after the first prince with arms wide open and even leapt on him. He sits on his lap and yada yada... Yet he can't do that with CG. Why? That's what's "unfair" for CG... He literally isn't asking for much and has never asked for much... Yet SM has always put him at arms length. It's sad, really.
why? because the first prince is not raping him n holding him hostage?? do we forget he is his oldest n dearest friend? CG is just some kid who got too attached to him bcs he helped, im sorry but he does not owe him anything n certainly not affection. try to picture being locked in the palace n raped for months n then act lovey dovey just to please CG.
i love toxic shit n CG like every other mf reading this, but sams behavior is very understandable n acceptable even. he wants to make CG mad to make him see he does NOT see him that way etc. if i was in his place i would do much more to spite CG. yes he can own him n rule over the whole country behind the scenes if he wanted to, but he does not have that in his personality, he wishes to be free n live good life w his daughter helping people. not serve CGs dick
yes they will 99% end up together but it would loose all plot if sam was acting like easy bitch to CG
I'm not saying sexually he should serve him or act easy. I'm literally saying that he should be playing his cards right right now by even just faking friendliness. Just been a little bit more patient, and NOT met the prince alone and in secret, he could have controlled the situation more and found his daughter.
It's shitty that he is being confined and kept at the palace by force.
But he's being a little dense at looking at his cards right now and figuring shit out instead.
I know he's childhood friends with the first prince, he's so deprived from real conversation etc etc, however I think it would have been good if he just knew not to provoke or poke the bear by breaking his rule. I think he could have been a little more patient so he could find his kid.
CG didn't even tell him to not meet him at all, he just said to not to alone.
I'm saying this because CG is beyond insane. He's literally so unstable and literally can't think rationally. Samyeong is traumatized by being confined but is the more stable. It's sad that things ended up this way, and I had hoped he held on and waited just a little more to earn more favor and trust. But he's not really helping the situation in the first place.
He could have faked it until he got what he wanted. He could have faked being so close and yada yada with CG because CG is batshit unwell...
To be fair, the first prince never assaulted him. Also, I think Sam thinks of the first prince as an equal while Geon feels like a child to placate or a dog to train. Also, it seems like Sam doesn’t want to go along with him. Like it’s very very easy to just go with it, lie or try to placate the king while he can but he continues to refuse to do it. Probably because his pride is all he has now and he refuses to let it go. I honestly think he’d just prefer if Geon would go ahead and kill him. Faking it til he makes it makes a lot of sense for use but then again, we are not in the position of being so utterly stripped of our dignity and reputation. Sam is a good and dignified person and just because someone is intelligent doesn’t make them a clever manipulator. Also, I don’t think Sam wants Geon to find his kid for him. He would be way too afraid of what Geon would do. I mean even if they find her now, everything is good for how long? What if Geon, being obviously unstable, becomes jealous and decides to kill her anyways? He wants to find his kid but in a way that Geon won’t find out.
Thanks because this entire discussion is, once again, women that doesn’t condone abusive, rape when it comes to the top because they imagine themselves as the uke and how they would have been soooo better than the MC, when whole time it’s a story that depict abusive, coercition, rape and violence at a deep level. So no you wouldn’t have make a “better Sam”, you wouldn’t be a “better victim” wtf…
Idk who you're referring to because I highly doubt anyone under this discussion even imagines themselves as such. Just like anybody sees someone's life and thinks they could make better decisions, this is a fictional book. Judging the characters in a fictional story is not a bad thing. Just as a reader, we are able to see a bigger picture and base decisions that the reader theorize would be better for that individual.
I agree, i don't think placating to his wishes isn't good either, but based on the circumstances he is in, I personally think that doing so until he could escape, would be the better choice to successfully leave or at least have his daughter. The simplest thing was to not meet with the prince ALONE, knowing that CG is bat shit insane and super possessive.
But as for the other things, I can see that if he doesn't want CG to find the daughter due to fear. SM is already kind of greedy and prideful in his own way, so idk if I necessarily see him faking it as stripping himself from that when in the end he could achieve what he needs and wants. But then again, this is my personal opinion.
He already has all the cards in his hand at his advantage, he just needs to know how to play them right imo.
I totally get what you mean. My point is basically I understand Samyeong’s POV but not necessarily that I agree with him or say he’s making the right choices. Like I said, the smart thing to do would be to go along with it and placate him to keep himself safe and even rule the kingdom by proxy if he wants but I just want to point out that we, as an audience, assume that this is what Samyeong wants to achieve since it is what we want to achieve if we were in his situation. But I think it has been pretty obvious from the start that Samyeong has different morals and priorities from us. It seems his pride and his sense of morality are things he aren’t willing to compromise even if it kills him. And in his POV, going along with the king or attempting to manipulate him compromises that. Prioritizing what makes the king comfortable over his own desire to bond with his oldest friend is not something he’s willing to move on. He KNOWS Geon would hate it but does not care enough to adjust. So I guess he’s not really “stupid” as the original comment wanted to imply but more so stubborn and proud.

Can I say something that will get rocks thrown at me...
I don't understand Sam at all. Chang Geon is possibly the easiest black flag seme to tame and yet Sam keeps on doing stupid ass shit like why are you sitting in the princes lap knowing damn well the murderous king Chang Geon requested that you keep a distance from him. You're fully aware that it's not only yourself but the KINGDOM as a whole that will suffer the consequences of your actions. Am I saying that Chang Geons demands are fair? NO. But Jesus Christ Sam just fucking hold the man before bed time and stay away from the prince and you will literally be reincarnated as a lotus flower. Why is this such a hard thing for Sam to do. He could literally pseudo rule the entire kingdom if he just acts nicely towards the king. Like if he doesn't want to fuck the king then he doesn't have to as long as he's NICE TO HIM then I'm like 100% Certain the king could live like a nun for Sam's sake. Jesus, Sam is so fucking stupid bro. Like so stupid.