Lmaooo

K no one asked bye

no I agree sometimes u wanna read trashy BLs for the sake of it im not justifying jinx i guess this is why it's popular like it's js so bad people accept it and come here to goon ? like if that makes sense? but i agree more s*x with literally ur r*pist is so fricking stupid and tone deaf. not saying it doesn't happen but it's a mental condition like stalkome syndrome yk..

I honestly don’t know how to state an opinion that’ll please everybody but the way I see it.. no matter what, nothing could fix this and make it right. Even if in some world jjk would kill himself, some of the readers will be upset and say something like “he did this to run away from the problem rather than fixing it.”

But to be honest… I’ve heard about so many real life experiences and even went through something similar (NO RAPE JUST ABUSE AND TOXICITY) That I feel like I kinda understand what mingwa is doing??? To turn a bad memory into a good memory by experiencing the same thing with good intentions is really hard but sometimes that’s the answer. Whether the good memory is made by the same person who created the bad experience or another one.

In my own opinion, I’ve went through things as a child that still cling to me even if they weren’t as serious as others. Till this day (now 19 years old) I still flinch when my siblings, father and even my friends touch my hand or even reach in for a hug. I feel this uncomfortable feeling running through my spine and I always say “stop being weird” as a way to keep distance. I hope one day, I will find the man of my life who will turn my bad experience into a good memory that’ll make me no longer flinch at the slightest touch.

To summarise, while many might not like how mingwa is proceeding with the story, the way I see is it is that it’s the perfect solution. Jaekyung stepped away long enough to make Kim Dan comfortable to do things the way he (KD) wants. Like what we saw in the chapter when Kim Dan told Jaekyung that’s he’s not forcing himself to do. And I really liked that to be honest :) but I hope that mingwa will actually make them depart and maybe in a timeskip of at least two years, the two get to reunite again.

Im only reading this cuz I've already stayed for too long and I need to see some fucking proof that he's redeemed himself, I have some stories piling up with toxic tops and none have given me release of my curiosity on how authors would deal with the toxic romance and deliver a good happy ending

Well except BJ Alex but thats so long ago my curiosity reset God why am I so hypocritical?

Haha it’s okay. I’m reading the bl from this author for shits and giggles at this point. That’s most bl and gl written by straight people who know nothing about trauma or even the queer experience. They usually only write to goon to sex scenes. It’s all for shit and giggles for me

I agree. Realistically this is just goon bait for straight women. And it’s funny to read. I don’t expect anything real from this author and that’s why I laugh. I had hope tho earlier in the story. I know not everyone processes trauma the same way but just knowing how bl authors are. I don’t expect them to ever have their mc process the trauma without sex. And that’s why it’s funny and unserious to me. If the ml wasn’t his abuser too maybe the tone would be different. But he’s also such a big abuser and addition to the trauma. And I’ll continue reading each chapter haha

Yum Yummy yum. Gimme more big boy

Sorry you went through stuff as a child homeslice.

All add this. The ml also contributed to the abuse. That’s why this is funny and not good. I’d love if KD processed his trauma before sucking dick. But this is goon material for straight women in the bl space so I’m not pressed about it. - signed a gay person