bl recommendations where uke or seme likes cute things, pink stuff and they try to hide it...

check out Taikingo, Usaka san wo Nuga Shitara - Tsundere-senpai no Ecchi na Himitsu (Yaoi)

I loved this oneee

Not be judged per se but because it's causing to have an accident to someone who "compliments" him so he switched his style and now afraid to go back because they might judge them.

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/is_it_because_i_m_cute/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/40_made_ni_shitai_10_no_koto/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fukigen_na_doudou/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/honey_maple_more_more_sugar/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/you_re_my_princess/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_want_to_spoil_ikurou_san/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yankee_to_carameliser/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kitto_oujisama_ga_nante/

not scared to like
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fukutsu_no_zono/

''in the belly of the orge''
the seme is a gyaru!! (not scared to like cute stuff tho)