While I have seen some gay frat bros here and there, and to be honest, I don't believe in stereotypes, but feminine gay men are a huge part of the gay community, and people trying to erase them or remove them from media is just super shitty, I can't lie. I love femininity too, and I don't understand why it's so hated or why it's shamed.
Right? I literally don't understand why it's quirky to love two masculine men together when they love men anyway. BLs with two masculine men It's literally evened out with BLs that have twinks, and I literally don't understand when it's enough for these people. At this rate, they just want to erase twinks from BL and have one type of body, and it is men with steroids, literally forcing body standards; it's literally not woke.
Exactly! It's not enough for them to have their manhwa and manga - they want to erase any other type! Every time I'm reading something with a pretty bottom there are people in the comments saying how bad it is that he is a twink and even saying that they look like children (which they most certainly don't - they look like real life men that don't hit the gym every day that's all!). People commenting how they are "not real men" too, which is a whole new layer of homophobia

Finally, Twink x Twink. They are so rare to find in BL; for some reason people keep complaining about twinks in BL and make it their whole personality how they hate twinks because of "heteronormativity" when, in fact, the men that BL can't get rid of are the big masculine men. But whatever, I'm not surprised; feminine men always get shit. Anyway, I'm getting off topic. I like the stories where ML is being a loser and lives miserably but has a turnaround to fix their life, it's weirdly comforting You know, stories like those give some hope, and it feels like you are not alone. I have some hope for this story.