Clinical Definition: Pedophilia is a psychiatric paraphilia involving prepubescent children (generally age 13 or younger) and under the DSM-5 and ICD-11, this attraction becomes a diagnosable pedophilic disorder only if the individual is at least 16 years old and at least 5 years older than the child, and the pattern causes subjective distress, interpersonal difficulty, or has been acted upon.
its a serious crime and throwing it around because you morally object to something degrades the severity and horror and its insulting to actual victims.

im so glad this is picked up again.
And its not pedophilia - its more friendship and nothing happens between the two minors.