Are you maybe confusing intrusive thoughts for fantasies? Rape isn’t sexual, it’s abuse designed to strip a living being of their rights and autonomy, leaving them with agonising trauma and suffering that can last a lifetime. There is no such thing as wanting to be raped, because the whole concept of rape is to take away what you want, what you think, and what you are as a person.
These people consider rape a porn tag and an extension of sex. Don't lose your time. As you said rape is not sexual, rape is tool for control, submission and humiliation, it is even used on military soldiers and in jail to stabilish a hierarchy, but there are people that are too porn fried. Let them met a drug addict man at night and learn.
People who unironically think like that are more a danger to addicts on the street than addicts are to them. Drugs and alcohol can only lower inhibitions. They aren’t libidinous rape drugs that make you want to fuck everything walking towards you in a dark alleyway. What’s the point in generalizing addicts who live in underprivileged conditions in what I assume are impoverished neighborhoods if the person doing the generalizing also lives there homeless man calling another man homeless type shit.
As a recovered addict myself, I can tell you confidently that drugs don’t turn people into rapists. In fact, it is much more likely for a sober person to rape a drugged-up person than it is for the opposite to happen. I agreed with your first statement about how rape is used to establish hierarchy and control, but I don’t understand your reasoning behind blaming addicts and antagonising them.
Or military males that sa their female colleagues in a higher rate than enemy tropes. I am not only talking about male addicts specially. So dont take it to heart and I understand what you are saying about the antagonization these people suffer, but idgaf about male addicts tbh. Also congratulations on your recovering, dear. I am happy for you really!♡

I decided if I should say this or not but whatever. I really do love this kind of stuff and on a daily basis as a women I do wish I could experience this kind of stuff. Stories like this i often make me wonder