Nah. There's being private and then there's this extreme level of closeted the ML is, where he requires them both to wear a fckn disguise just to be seen together, for MC to walk 5m behind him when shopping, not going sight seeing during a trip outta town, not holding hands in an enclosed courtyard w lit no one around etc etc etc I'm a queer guy and my current partner is also a guy. And we have to be careful sometimes when we're out. I'm also not big on PDA but bruh. We're also friends and can hang out like that too together. Esp in areas where no one knows us. Tf

Everyone hating the seme not for the rape but for him having boundaries?? honestly this manga hit close to home, made me remember my ex bf. He's the type to be loud about relationships even tho I told him I don't really want us to be open yet, it's really nice to see something in fiction where that's respected no matter how uncomfortable it got. But me and him broke up cause boundaries and now I have a beautiful gf, I think I just hated his ass cuz the moment we started dating(my gf) I immediately told everyone I knew including my whole family ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭