I agree, for real. Garam wants to have a healthy relationship with Jaehyuk where his boundaries are respected and where they can both live lives where they build each other up, not cut each other off from people or experiences. And sadly Jaehyuk has a very specific idea of what a happy future together looks like and is upset when Garam doesn't have the exact same vision.
I hope Jaehyuk is able to get out of his own head, that Garam is able to advocate for himself without bending and they're able to work it out
finally someone gets me cause while i understand both sides, the garam hate train is crazy. even their conversation in the last chapters,”i cut contact with my family for your sake” “”i quit my job for you”... things garam never asked him to do, being thrown back in his face. he may be immature for running away but honestly jaehyuk has such an overwhelming personality that sometimes *i* feel like running away reading it. it’s a burden to be someone’s everything. lol
i understand garam idk if i found out my partner was willing to throw away his entire life and everyone in it to be with me….that would concern me as well. lol