smitten younger gong is "TGCF" (classic danmei, i havent read it, only watched the donghua but ik it's lwk peak, but mxtx novels js don't do it for me that much)
erha (it's so toxic tho, i havent read and gong is crazy like he is rapist in first life and these alot of lore i dont wanna tell the whole story but it's a smitten gong by end of it, but it got lots of TWs)
while not a "younger" gong, "guardian" by priest got a yearner gong like he in love w should for 10,000 years. the novel not explicit though.
i havent read much danmeis sorry.
another danmei is "global examination" which also got a manhua and i rec it. it's a really power couple and overall very shonen vibe it's a slow fkn burn.

can anyone recommend me danmeis with the same dynamic as tartali?