bro sometimes people have healthy cross generation relationships either with older relatives or neighbors, could easily mean drinking or going to bars or shit that a 20 year old would think would be fun. not always about sex.
Dude he was actively trying to be in a relationship with him
hence why i said "sometimes people", meaning im addressing bout the general statement in your comment.
and it's been a while I've read this but iirc 2nd ML didn't do shit like keep in touch or actively woo the MC before they got reunited
it could be he also had a crush (which doesn't have to be malicious just bc of the age gap btw, maybe like "oh wow i sure hope i can find a partner as cute as him" kind of thinking). in any case i was expecting he had no interest when he first showed up and only actively became a hindrance to introduce conflict to the story.
You’re actually crazy if you think those weren't suggestive comments to a minor. Your hd should get checked
You need to touch grass if you think everything's pedo, paranoia is a symptom
Wtv u say diddy
So are you a pedo
A pedo defender (basically still a pedo)
Or currently getting groomed
You don't look at a middle schooler and think, "yeah, that exactly how I want my future lover to be like" that is a child. A grown ass adult should not get a crush on a middle schooler.
no are you
walk me through which chapter he said this again as it's been very long
anyways my point was initially i see nothing wrong with saying "we'll do the fun things like drinking or clubbing when you're older" to someone who looks up to you as the fun older person. it's like the fun uncle saying "yeah I'll take you to the best places" which doesn't have to be creepy 100% of the time
i was referring to comment you made "oh wow i sure hope i can find a partner as cute as him" kind of thinking" this thinking is problematic.
I get you intial point, if he had only said "let's do fun things" it wouldnt be a problem BUT he himself said that he always thought of uju as someone more than a friend.
Mind you Mc was 13-15 years old then wdym "always thought of him as more." Implications are clearly as day, you want to ignore it then it's on you.
Oh so you're just dumb cuz that was a question love
Dude someone collage has no business telling a middle schooler he wants to take him drinking and clubbing when he gets older and if you don't see a problem with that you're the problem
lmao you're also dumb for not answering my question then
Do you mean "college"? lol
You don't go out much do you? Just because they say sus shit like that doesn't mean it's automatically sus. Could be they just want to misdirect you by closing the topic or just saying shit they think would be fun because they're just dumb and young as well. It's a different thing when they *actually* do it versus just talking out their ass, glad I'm not your friend, you might report me for saying I want to commit murder just because I say I'm gonna jinja kill my boss for making us do overtime
He actively tried to pursue a relationship with him why are you defending this there was no innocent thoughts involved
Mc was in middle school while the 2nd love interest was in college and literally every other convo they had he was saying things like "when your 20 we'll do this" and "when you become an adult we'll do that"