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Well, I don't think she's losing any of her sides because they are trying to marry the prince. In fact, I think it is pretty strange that they don't tell her to drop the sword training.
As she said from the start, she's taking some opportunities. In fact, Russel doesn't want her to be tied if everything goes wrong.

why do I get the feeling they're starting to turn her from a knight and a strong woman into someone small idk