Thankyou the explanation is so good written, you worked hard
atp this overall review needs to be shown every chapter haha this observation looks unbiased and detailed
Yes you explained the psyche of my baby Grayson so well and thankyou for that smmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm <3
I think you have missed a lot of points here. If you have read the side stories you would have not said that Chase was completely ignored. It was Koi and Ashley who thought and made a way for Chase to be in the acting industry. There are a lot of time skip and a lot of things not told in the story but if what you said is true then the parent should have stopped caring about their children as soon as they reached the legal age. However Ashley set a centralized security system for each and every one of all his children. Who does that? Even when they are already full grown adults and have children on their own they are still being looked after by their parents. If they truly doesn’t care about their children then they would have just let them as soon as they reach legal age. Added to the fact that after Ashley handed the company to Nathaniel he entered politics when in fact he could have just spend his time with Koi like Dominic did when he handed the company to Ashley. As we know Ashley is extremely possessive of Koi it got so extreme after he damaged his brain but why is a man that possessive will choose to enter the grueling world of politics when he isn’t even in need of money and anything right? Money has no value to Ashley but he needs power and connections to keep all his troublesome children. He knew from the start that money alone and few connections won’t be enough to keep them all out of trouble. Like what he said he only wants to things from them to not kill and not get killed. Just because he doesn’t want it to happen it won’t happen right? Nathaniel killed Chrissy Jean’s father and how did you think he was able to get out? He said by pressuring people involved in the politics. How did you think Larien stay hidden even after being in the wanted list of FBI? Chase always causes trouble and even went as far as to shoot paparazzi but he didn’t landed in Jail. Connection and power is everything if he wanted all those troublesome dominant alpha children he has out of jail and out of coffin.
Ashley may not openly show his love to his alpha children but he has them shown in his own way that people don’t understand because they are just reading shallowly to the story.
Also I’m not totally agreeing to it but do you know what happens when a person is in full rage? They get to do despicable things as to even kille even a family member. That’s why in the country where I live the court always take it to account the circumstances where it lead for a person to kill another.
It surprised me one time when our professor even told us that there’s an exception to our law which “kind of allows the person to kill another without serving jail time” and it was true.
There’s a clause in our law in which a circumstances that if a parent out of emotional turmoil due to what that circumstances brought had killed his or her own child as a result then that person will be excepted. Given all elements have met.
We asked why did our law allow it? The explanation given to us is because a person can be killed emotionally even just a split second brought by the certain circumstances which made them act irrationally.
People might argue that but there are laws acknowledges that such emotions is what makes us human.
I always did wonder on what might be the reason for Ashley to enter politics but bro like he did handle their stuff and provided safety too, it's just children needs guidance and love more than handling from afar type of thing, I think what they are trying to say is they never guided the children to the right part which are parents responsibility and failed in it.
I will agree on parts like they were involved in a certain degree of Chase life like protection and things but it feels more like protecting a Valuable thing more than caring for his own child which is very different. But we never got a clear picture on why ashley entered politics and gain power maybe you might be right or wrong but I get your point of view. I would say strangling a small kid should be out of question though yes anger comes through but atleast not on your child which is just abuse.
I do agree on that that strangling a child specially your own is outright abuse in normal situation but a certain circumstance arise which lead to that.
When I was just a college student maybe I’ll see it that way too. But when I had this subject about law and our professor who is both a lawyer and judge explained to us why such exceptions to our law like not convicting a parent who accidentally killed their child or spouses out of irrational rage are not convicted of murder and not even of jail time.
He explained to us that a person might temporarily be blinded by rage and at that time can be deemed as dead with emotion. A person can be killed emotionally by shock and that’s what the law in our country is looking at that’s why such exceptions are allowed. He said such things do arise in court and people do get away with murder because of it.
I think 5 years ago there was a news broke out when a wife openly shot his husband who she caught making out with a mistress which almost kill both. The wife was not even apprehended because she was protected by that clause.
Anyways base on our professor who’s a judge the reason why such law created is because human as we are strong emotions can temporarily make a person insane and unable to make rational judgements when in the situation where they are blinded by rage. It gave me a whole new point of view as to why there are people after committing a crime says they don’t remember one thing they knew they were so angry and the next thing the crime itself already happened.
When I was reading what you were saying about the law I thought that just a few hours ago I saw a news about a father in Turkey who shot his son to death in the center of the city. They were fighting and he shot him . At first i was thinking not all humans deserve to be parents but than i was reading the comments and they were saying the son was a drug addict and he was asking for money to buy more and when the father ( who was a police officer) told him no , his son attacked him with a kinfe so the father did shoot him ( and it was like ten times) . But i did changevmy mind after i learned the reason he shot him . It does not make it okay but maybe the father was tired for a long time from his sons addiction and when he tried to attack him with a kinfe it was his last straw and he lost it for a second
True, I used to think one sidedly before and wasn’t able to understand why such a revise penal code created in our law constitution that literally make a murder suspect get away with murder, but our law professor explained to us how such both emotions and mental state of a person committed the crime play such an important aspect in influencing their rationality and impulsive actions during that time.
As long as all elements are met the person committed the crime will not be apprehended nor serve any jail time.
It is scary how such strong emotional shock can clouded a person in making a rational judgement of the situation and jump on to commit a crime. I know no one can excuse anyone from hurting another person much more your own child but we should also try to see it from that person’s perspective.
Remember Ashley just came from work and what greeted him is his spouse laying on the floor fighting for his life and imagine listening to your own child saying so it’s true Daddy can’t taste anything. How about routen food? Who wouldn’t be in rage during that time? Specially when we all know that more than anything and anyone in this world Koi is the most important person to him.
I’m not defending him but if we were to be put in his shoes given the circumstances we may have raised our hand to our own kid too out of rage. That’s why there’s a term “when a person is really livid all they can see is red” because extreme emotions can clid a person’s judgment.
Posting it a 2nd time cause if people are confused
I completed all of them.
Let me start with Ashley and Connor relationship {I won't speak much on Dominic and Ashley Juliet relationship because they are self explanatory being toxic and worst story}. Ashley and Connor was a good and positive relationship I enjoyed them at their high school the most. But I have so many complaints of them as Parents, it became super evident of how bad parents they both were from "Deflower me if you can". Let's start
= Chase - Chase was the most neglected in the family, it's truly evident from all the interactions present in the story. Ashley completely devoted his love towards Bliss cause he Bliss looked like connor and other 5 of his children looked like him and Dominic, which led to him being strict and not feeling love towards any of his other children it's just bad parenting when you completely isolate your children. While reading I felt chase might be the most disconnected person even from Koi it's evident even Connor doesn't have much affection for Chase. Ashley and Connor took care of Nathaniel, Grayson and Stacy at start more and Nathaniel grew estranged after the poisoned food incident more and they isolated Chase completely after that, Ashley and connor always fret over Grayson's Psychological Emotional deficiency problem, looked after stacy and showered love on Bliss. Ashley favoritism shows very evidentally towards Bliss. Nathaniel showed cold shoulder to Chase, Stacy used to beat Chase and many others. No one took care of gave a glance towards chase and the one who did and took care of Chase was Grayson I was surprised the only person to care in the family for chase is the emotional deficit person which didn't reap good results sadly leading for a lifelong traumatization. Imagine how bad parents must they be the only person who took care of your child was Grayson. While reading Grayson does harm chase but at the same time seems to care in his own twisted ways and loves him (yeah I don't believe it but he does care), the facts like only Grayson looked after chase's pheromones whereas no one in the family didn't give much glance, if Grayson didn't take care of Chase's pheremones I think we would'nt have had our sweet boy sadly.
= Nathaniel - Ashley is a psychotic person to treat Nathaniel with such estranged and hostile eyes towards your own born son like he posses both yours and your spouse connor's blood and you get jealous of Nathaniel being close to his own blood birth Father. Ashley needs a psychologist I always get the eww of MLs who are jealous of their own children. Then ashley also abandoned most of Nathaniel childhood too but koi did take care of Nathaniel for sometime but Nathaniel knew that his father Ashley gets jealous so he himself estranged from connor, also Ashley sending your young child I don't know what was his age but he was very young child to an orgy how much trauma does he has to take. It was nice that Nathaniel also moved little from the family and there are other factors too.
= Grayson - Grayson awakened as a dominant Alpha early and has that problem of emotional and empathy deficiency. Ashley handled it bad with Grayson, after the incident of 8 year old Grayson adding Cleaning agent into the food of connor as connor said he can't taste or smell food, which led grayson to be curious as evident as a child and adds it to test if connor is saying the truth leading a huge complication and connor almost dying. Ashley was stunned that all 3 of his children aka Nathaniel, Stacy and Grayson just stood there while their own mother connor was dying infront of them and didn't call for help, connor was saved thankfully ashley coming at the right time. The way ashley strangled Grayson to death and only stopping when he saw resemblance of Connor in Grayson, Ashley has ptsd from his father Dominic and Grayson seems to resemble exactly like Dominic like a carbon copy and Grayson always triggers ptsd in Ashley, It's understandable it's hard because he resembles your father but that doesn't mean you can strangled an eight year old kid and Grayson was hospitalized with serious complications it's sad. Then later after this incident Ashley seperated his children from Connor, Ashley gave a very hard regime and rules for Grayson with punishment which was borderline child abuse. Grayson didn't cross line after that and started to Imitate and do exactly as he is told by Ashley, he never attacks first and only uses self defence as thought by Ashley and everything we see of Grayson is based on ashley instructions. Ashley and connor both gave up trying to teach Grayson any emotions after trying their best which I understand the struggle. But Grayson wants to be close with his siblings and parents so he tries to do some pranks which were very harsh pranks and led to problems, so he just needs right guidance in love, help and social interactions which ashley failed to provide well. So he was lonely and searched for his fated partner to feel emotions in his life like his parents. For Ashley to accept and care for Grayson, he needs Grayson to learn how emotions work from Dane and after that Ashley started to like and care about Grayson and started to see connor resemblance more to like Grayson, Ashley you 2 decades late to start care about your child.
= Stacy and her sister (it starts from L but I forgot) - Stacy is what I might call is a milder Grayson we don't see much of her but she is messed up too. As for the other Sister L she is a Wanted criminal which we can guess is also by the neglect of the parents which led to this problem and messed up the life I didn't find much information other than that she has 8 or 9 wives.
= Bliss - The only person in the family who was not traumatized or has had bad experience. Because he resembled Connor so much Ashley loved him and cherished bliss which we see it in "Deflower me if you can". Bliss loves his siblings and his parents very much and he cannot take someone abusing his brothers or sisters. Nathaniel and Grayson took care of Bliss too because Nathaniel who gave cold shoulder to Chase but looked after bliss so well. There is a lot of cameos of others in his story showing him being cherished by Stacy too. He is like teh golden child. Ashley wanted only one child who will resemble Connor but connor wanted 12 children and they stopped having children only after bliss because he looked like connor and that's what Ashley wanted so he has love overflowing for Bliss. Grayson also looked after and cherished Bliss. It's like all the neglected love was poured towards Bliss sadly.
Ashley and Connor if you guys couldn't look after 6 children then you should have stopped after Grayson and Stacy cause it left a very bad problems to your family. I don't know, I think everyone in the family just hates or blatantly ignores Chase except Grayson somehow he does care for chase in his twisted psychological ways. Ashley and connor started to love Grayson and Dane relationship and supported them so much which shows them being involved in Grayson life a lot and cares about him, ashley who is madly protective of Connor let connor use his pheremones on Dane to heal Dane which he would have never allowed in any circumstances, showing that Ashley cares about Grayson and his future. I think in the family they only care about Bliss, Grayson and maybe Stacy too whereas other childrens are just on their own to fend.