Not a femdom really?

That's what femdom means, dom means dominant, if you mean she doesn't have a 'dominant' personality, it's not about personalities. It's about actions. That's what determines femdom, penetration. I think you're so used to BDSM femdom where the woman is sadistic or such, so they act differently from this cute pink-haired girl because she's into vanilla femdom where nobody is being forced or hesitant.
Compare this to a bl, if a top was just as shy as her, would that take away from his label as a top? No, he's still doing the penetrating! Sure he's a little cuter than the bottom, and a little more whiny, but he could still be dominant despite his personality. The bottom may be more smug and confident, but he's still taking it up the ass, in no way would he be considered dominant, (there are a few cases where the bottom is dominant though!! so not saying this about all bls) bottom just has a more solid personality than top.

I hope despite our differences we can all still enjoy this work !! ╥﹏╥

Wow I admire you so much, that paragraph is so perfect and concise, thank you for taking the time writing it!! Wouldnt have explained it better (▰˘◡˘▰)

Awww omg thank you so much, this means so much to me!! I second-guessed myself after sending that because I suddenly switched to yaoi terms since I'm just so used to reading yaoi more than josei or yuri and I felt like I was yaoi-ifing everything when I could've very much explained it from a hetero point of view...!!! ┗( T﹏T )┛ You really eased me there, so really thank you, you're so sweet !!! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

What brainwashed you that you’ve started thinking that dominance equals penetration, girlie pop?… Dominance is about control and initiative first and foremost, and you saying “blabla you only say it’s not a real femdom cause she is not sadistic or mean” is just putting words into my mouth