That's what femdom means, dom means dominant, if you mean she doesn't have a 'dominant' personality, it's not about personalities. It's about actions. That's what determines femdom, penetration. I think you're so used to BDSM femdom where the woman is sadistic or such, so they act differently from this cute pink-haired girl because she's into vanilla femdom where nobody is being forced or hesitant.
Compare this to a bl, if a top was just as shy as her, would that take away from his label as a top? No, he's still doing the penetrating! Sure he's a little cuter than the bottom, and a little more whiny, but he could still be dominant despite his personality. The bottom may be more smug and confident, but he's still taking it up the ass, in no way would he be considered dominant, (there are a few cases where the bottom is dominant though!! so not saying this about all bls) bottom just has a more solid personality than top.
I hope despite our differences we can all still enjoy this work !! ╥﹏╥
Awww omg thank you so much, this means so much to me!! I second-guessed myself after sending that because I suddenly switched to yaoi terms since I'm just so used to reading yaoi more than josei or yuri and I felt like I was yaoi-ifing everything when I could've very much explained it from a hetero point of view...!!! ┗( T﹏T )┛ You really eased me there, so really thank you, you're so sweet !!! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
See, now you're the one putting words in my mouth. I said that as in 'you're so used to bdsm femdom, that you think vanilla femdom isn't femdom' just because the woman doesn't beat her bottomed every two seconds, that doesn't mean it's not femdom. What you're referring to is "domineering" not "dominant" and these are two very different things. I don't know why you suddenly got so emotional when I was nicely replying to you.
Oh girlie.. i guess I’ve completely overlooked that you are only acquainted with the manhwa version of bdsm, not the real one. Ig reading too much bl can indeed brainwash you to some extent
And pls don’t ever try real bdsm, you are risking either hurting someone or being hurt with this amount of false knowledge!
yeah cuz I'm not into BDSM duhh I don't like plastic going up my butt - idk if u were tryna be homophobic towards gay content by that comment but I'll assume you're better than that,,,, what was the false information of mine, so I can correct myself? This is a MANHWA, ofcourse I'm going to use MANHWA bdsm rules in a MANHWA section. Why would I use real bdsm rules in a MANHWA? If u want me to say it from a josei point of view because the yaoi one was too hard you can ask and I'll comply
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I'm crying you're cooking (▰˘◡˘▰) As I said, she's used to bdsm femdom and thats why shes saying vanilla femdom isn't femdom, she already proved my point so I don't really feel like replying anymore lolol. Mf said I'm used to "manhwa bdsm" like girl we're talking about a manhwa no shit i'll be talking about manhwa bdsm this is common sense, I hope she's being dense on purpose because this is actually sad

They have the most typical smut dynamic when the guy is proactive and smug one and the girl is always hesitant and shy. So is it a femdom really only cause she is the one who is doing penetration?