r u serious ? how much can you misunderstand a character like this he was insecure bc he has trauma, he’s just scared of losing kirato bruh . and fyi they communicated well enough so aoi isn’t scared anymore
Hahahaha You clearly don't understand a damn thing about the character or the story, and you're just focusing on the superficial aspects of the matter.
Wow, a person with abandonment trauma gets gloomy and is insecure in the relationship, who would have thought
Glad ML knows what he is getting into and is very willing. Good for him
ure projecting babe
Well seabi I might have some childhood trauma from pple,but at least I have a present parents and a family that loves me, and I would never drain and throw my negativity at my beloved ones, I'd rather get treated to be a better person, than make my partner feel sick of me
Got notification here and u commented earlier, so I am a bit confused whether this was meant for me or OP lmao
In case it is me, I was agreeing with you wasnt dissing the characters
I edited it out and added things that answers this "trauma" u kept bringing up
not at all!! i’m talking about OP lol
So u have things that MC doesn't have... which means your struggles aren't the same-
Being vulnerable and showing u are insecure is not a bad thing. Plus, by getting treated do u mean therapy? Cuz they are childhood friends and the ML wants him regardless of any of that apparently. It is not like he was in the dark, so I am failing to see the issue. Ofc, would it be better if he just went to therapy? Yes, but ml wants him regardless of that and it doesn't seem like he would be sick of him anytime soon. Plus, it is not like Mc takes it out on him, right? He is just unsure and is very valid to think of such issues from his POV. They talk it out and are very good communicators, so all is well tho
that’s the thing, you’ve never experienced abuse nor neglect from your parents as a child. so don’t talk about it and act like you understand the MC when you don’t.
i’ve experienced abuse and neglect from both of my parents and i still do experience it, i totally understand him and why he acts this way. hes not making his partner feel sick of him, they both complement each other, you’re projecting really badly right now.
you’re literally saying that people who have experienced trauma and neglect can’t be loved nor cared for, that’s what you’re saying rn btw and it’s wild. i invite you to read this comment that explains really well their relationship dynamic. https://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/22504282/
hope it can change ur mindset because gosh what you’re saying is insane. also, lowkey, you’re full of negativity yourself, look at ur own comments lol… you keep insulting and being mean under every stories’s comment section lol
Oh yay then LMFAO
See how u assumed that I don't know what it feels like to be abused when u know nothing about my life, just because I said my family was loving doesn't mean that I never experienced abuse, there's other relationships other than ur family. And think whatever u want I'm not changing my mindset,and I never said mental people shouldn't be loved, but I said they get treated. Similar to this I have a friend that was dating a guy who was so unsecured about his looks, whenever they had an argument he would tell "oh u did/say this because I'm ugly" and everytime this girl would feel defeated in that argument and tries to reassure him and helps him his self-esteem, but at some point she got so sick of it and told him let's break up, and after that she went to therapy. So if u read my comment I'm saying I CAN'T do this if other people think that's okay and they'll do the same thing as the ml good for them. U see how u people are kinda crazy always attacking actual human for a fictional story,I never insulted anyone in this website but ppl keep coming at my ass, so whatever girl do/think whatever u want,my vocabulary/battery reached their limits.
what your said does make sense as it would be draining to constantly provide validation to your partner and fearing that they would end the relationship........
But the mc and ml have a slightly different dynamic.....yuuji has self awareness and that's why their relationship is at a crossroads and not confirmed.... While kirato is aware of this insecurity in yuuji... They have been friends since childhood so he would have realized it alot earlier and is now willing to be with him...... You would not like that in reality but it's fiction so yeah......
« you people » alright that’s all i needed to hear. stop projecting for the love of god
What a pain in the ass, if I'm dating someone like this I'll lose my shit no matter how much I love him. I can't keep showing him with actions and words that I love him and he keeps getting gloomy and ask to end things, that will only drain my and make me lose interest.
Edit:since A LOT of people got mad and hit me with "his trauma"excuse.Yall use this excuse whenever u feel like it, but I never saw someone use it on a cereal killer that was abused by his parents and was bullied his whole life, His excuse is he does this because of his trauma!!! Would they accept that and forgive him? Ofc NO.So this guy I'm telling him I love again and and again with words, actions but till when? What about the other person's feeling won't they matter, won't they also get traumatized by the word "breakup"? Instead of draining a positive person that grew up in a loving family, go to a therapist get treated than look for a relationship or don't even be with him to begin with, people are going thro shit as it is. U know how many cheerful people are going to therapy because of an ex partner that was full of negativity and trauma?