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Star July 9, 2026 6:04 am

What happen if... Like yk, you're a straight person and have a BI bff who you support and is ready to fight everyone who said something bad about them... And yk one day, they suddenly drop a bomb after you ask them, So are you searching for me in those people who you dated and they say yes... So... What will you do in this Position?

Responses
    Hannez July 9, 2026 6:06 am

    What?

    Tan July 9, 2026 6:08 am

    Im so fucking confused

    C_Snake1111 July 9, 2026 6:10 am

    why would u ask them that?

    YoBologna July 9, 2026 6:10 am

    U ask them what??

    rilakkuma July 9, 2026 6:15 am

    Girl what

    Star July 9, 2026 6:19 am
    What? Hannez

    Yeah what?

    Star July 9, 2026 6:19 am
    Im so fucking confused Tan

    Me too

    Star July 9, 2026 6:19 am
    why would u ask them that? C_Snake1111

    I didn't ask them

    Star July 9, 2026 6:20 am
    U ask them what?? YoBologna

    What?

    anal fissure July 9, 2026 6:20 am

    Explanation.

    Op is straight, they have a bff who's Bisexual. One day op decided to ask bff "So are you searching for me in those people who you dated" to which the bff replied "yes". So now op wants advice on what you would do in their position.

    Hope this helps!

    Star July 9, 2026 6:20 am
    Girl what rilakkuma

    Girl idk

    Star July 9, 2026 6:20 am
    Explanation. Op is straight, they have a bff who's Bisexual. One day op decided to ask bff "So are you searching for me in those people who you dated" to which the bff replied "yes". So now op wants advice on w... anal fissure

    YES THIS! THANKYOU BOO

    C_Snake1111 July 9, 2026 6:26 am
    YES THIS! THANKYOU BOO Star

    girl like why would u ask ur bff that? u knew they had feelings for u or sum?

    Star July 9, 2026 6:38 am
    girl like why would u ask ur bff that? u knew they had feelings for u or sum? C_Snake1111

    Girl...I didn't knew they had feelings for me okay? I didn't. She used to date this bunch of people which couldn't last till weeks or month's and i said why do you end up a very nice relationship and she said they're not like you and I just joked, and asked so are you searching for me in the people you have dated till now and she said Yes. So what am I supposed to do here!?

    Erinbun July 9, 2026 6:53 am
    Girl...I didn't knew they had feelings for me okay? I didn't. She used to date this bunch of people which couldn't last till weeks or month's and i said why do you end up a very nice relationship and she said t... Star

    Go date her. No other option here. You’ve been officially chosen by the lesbians. No way back anymore.

    Howling Candy July 9, 2026 7:17 am
    Girl...I didn't knew they had feelings for me okay? I didn't. She used to date this bunch of people which couldn't last till weeks or month's and i said why do you end up a very nice relationship and she said t... Star

    Just tell her the truth. You can't reciprocate her feelings. Tell her you only see her as best friend and act normal. Just go on your life. Don't just keep quiet and make her hopeful yk.

    Howling Candy July 9, 2026 7:19 am
    Go date her. No other option here. You’ve been officially chosen by the lesbians. No way back anymore. Erinbun

    She has the right to choose how and who she wants to date. Doesn't mean her BI Bff like her then she has to like it.

    I remember there's one tiktok influencer that didn't date her girl best friend and she get called names and cancelled just because she didn't like girls.

    C_Snake1111 July 9, 2026 7:21 am
    Girl...I didn't knew they had feelings for me okay? I didn't. She used to date this bunch of people which couldn't last till weeks or month's and i said why do you end up a very nice relationship and she said t... Star

    girl make ur side clear and DO NOT lead her on , AT ALL..

    Dumpling14 July 9, 2026 7:33 am

    My anxiety kicking in already and i’m not even in your position right know but overthinking this

    Hannez July 9, 2026 7:38 am

    I just realized i misread "BI(bisexual)" as "BL(boys love)" which was why i was so confused

    But anyways do what your heart tells you, if you feel the same way then you can tell her if you'd like, but then again you mentioned you're straight so that might be unlikely. Just politely tell her what YOU feel and prioritize that. It's better to reject her now than lead her on which could result to even more problems later. Goodluck OP