Well, ml loses his memory so he's mentally very young, back to when he didn't know he was queer, he was also raised VERY Christian, suddenly told he was engaged to a man, so he doesn't deal well with this reality, his feelings, and specially the jealousy, he was super rude and selfish at 22. But he is not a bad person, he's just in a bad place, the 29 y/o version of him has matured enough, is nice to people, caring, loving, and gives Mc space, doesn't get over taken by jealousy, etc, a proper green flag. He's just… not there yet.

Just binged the novel, I love them!! And I'm a sucker for stories where we get to see fans reactions, lol