no exactly. and even with garam he still sucks. i’ve just finished reading this story now im caught up, and i still don’t get how ppl call him a complex character, he isn’t. he’s a piece of shit and he SUCKS. he’s hurt so many of his students, people closed to him, and even garam who has never done anything. the rape was too much i hated it, the author had no need to draw their first time like this. it was gross. he is no different than these toxic mls that everyone hates, but somehow when it comes to this story its a complex character. well okay then the ML in painter of the night is also a complex character if we think of it, isn’t he ? he had a rough past and trauma, hence why he raped the mc for the entire serie, right?
well obviously no that’s not true… heejae sucks just as much as these toxic mls, he’s an abuser ; sexually, verbally, emotionally and physically. bro got it all.
Here's a definition of a complex character: A complex multi-dimensional persona with conflicting motivations, flaws, and an inner life. Unlike "flat" characters defined by a single trait, they mirror real human psychology by making unpredictable decisions, experiencing internal conflict, and often evolving as the story progresses.
I think heejae IS complex, the way a human is always complex no matter if they were an asshole or a saint. It may not be resonating with you, and that's fine, but people flock to this manhwa for a reason and for me personally it's mainly because of how human the writers write the characters.
Is there any reason for heejae to act like an asshole? I think there are multiple reasons we can see up to the chapter you read, but you may not like it because it's not some noble or grand one. Just like how real people are an asshole not always because of trauma or hurt, but for multitude of seemingly insignificant reasons.
Is heejae and garam's first time rape? No. It is a power imbalanced sex though (like their whole relationship) and it's toxic as fuck, it's not rape. Try looking up "dubious consent" instead.
Is their relationship abusive? Of course!!! One of the biggest themes of the manhwa is abusive love! Abusive love between you and your parents, abusive love between you and your mentor, abusive love between you and your passion.
Anyway i hope you continue reading it with open heart. Or not, it's up to you! Enjoy it, regardless and please don't be stressed for not liking what other people do.
omg you made me so hard rn bc i hate his fucking ASS! how many diagnoses does he need so ppl understand he is a piece of shit?????? damn like that’s just crazy. they are getting elitist as hell ure so right. the only reason why they don’t hate the professor is being the art is GORG and because he’s an old man wah wah he can’t do nothings wrong!!!!!
sure yeah i’ll keep reading it because why not at this point, i’m not stressed for not liking what other do, but some of them are pure hypocrites and that’s kind of annoying .
the abusive trope doesn’t necessarily bother me but in this case it bothers me because people defend and actually understand heejae persona when there’s nothing to defend nor understand : he is an abuser. yeah he is more than that and he suffers from loneliness, brother has anger issues and abandonment issues yada yada, but he doesn’t NEED to do all that. he constantly hurt people around him and more than that he has never apologized to any of them. that pisses me off. i don’t see any character development, he is still the same after all, he never changes.
i do think their first time was rape, i don’t believe in dubious consent, it doesn’t exist. not respecting someone’s boundaries and pushing ur way thru just because you’re not happy that they don’t want it, is rape. i mean yeah he did ended up liking it but at what cost? even youngjo knows how to properly respect garam’s boundaries. he was WAY sweeter than the professor, their sex scenes were so cute compared to the ones we have to read now.
sure youngjo isn’t an abuser, but at least he respected and liked garam. the professor literally doesn’t even give a fuck that he hurt garam, they did it again in the morning even tho garam pushed him away and told him it hurt, if that’s not rape…
"Is heejae and garam's first time rape? No. It is a power imbalanced sex though (like their whole relationship) and it's toxic as fuck, it's not rape. Try looking up "dubious consent" instead" im sorry that is so so fucking stupid to say. the term dub-con only exists within fiction anyway - anywhere else its just considered rape. garam said no MULTIPLE TIMES, said he wasnt ready, looked terrified and heejae ignored all of it and actually took pleasure in claiming his first time after learning he hasnt done it with heejee. at no point did he voice that he did want to be fucked or looked like he wanted to be fucked, he just accepted it once it was happening because of some "shh itll be alright" from heejae which again isnt consent. he coerced him and thats just straight rape even if garam did end up liking it
"Is heejae and garam's first time rape? No. It is a power imbalanced sex though (like their whole relationship) and it's toxic as fuck, it's not rape. Try looking up "dubious consent" instead" im sorry that is so so fucking stupid to say. the term dub-con only exists within fiction anyway - anywhere else its just considered rape. garam said no MULTIPLE TIMES, said he wasnt ready, looked terrified and heejae ignored all of it and actually took pleasure in claiming his first time after learning he hasnt done it with youngjo. at no point did he voice that he did want to be fucked or looked like he wanted to be fucked, he just accepted it once it was happening because of some "shh itll be alright" from heejae which again isnt consent. he coerced him and thats just straight rape even if garam did end up liking it

well i hated their first time and i hate the professor even more than before .