Then don't be with the 0guy. Why try to change him when you met him the way he was and then you don't have the confidence to be in that relationship?
Huh? Be confidence and magically feel okay seeing your lover touchy flirty with other people?Wow. what a BULLSHIT. it’s not about confidence mate. IT’S ABOUT RESPECT YOUR PARTNER! he’s aware that his partner & other people isnt comfortable with it, he’s not changing himself but improve himself to be better human with commin sense. I bet you’re single because if this is your mindset, anyone will dump you. I said what I said.
Firstly I’ll make sure to say ,I like this manga and all. But I can see why op is so piss about this. Actually if we love our partners, we all can understand. Who would want to see their partners being so close (their faces almost touch) with others not once or twice but all the time, and then the problem is “Without noticing themselves/ unconsciously” that’s actually a huge problem bc that habit is really weird n can make others uncomfortable n also your reputation will get bad. You spill facts but your facts are wrong in this case. You’re right, if we got a lover who likes to smoke, we shouldn’t forbid them bc it’s their right and just bc of LOVE we shouldn’t change a person (but we can say “you shouldn’t smoke in this or that area”,right?)… AND this case is not about changing a person , but telling their unconscious habits so that they aware it and if they want to change , they can change. It’s like putting awareness in their minds.
you're projecting real-world insecurity onto a fictional dynamic while ignoring the actual text of the story. First, nobody in the manga is uncomfortable with Sei except Suou's own jealousy. From Ch1 it’s explicitly shown that people don't find Sei's physical closeness creepy or invasive, they feel flattered and courted and then Sei rejected the girl's advances.
to say that he is making people uncomfortable completely distorts how the author wrote those interactions and how the side characters actually react to him.
Second, expecting someone to completely alter their natural, friendly personality just to soothe a partner’s insecurity isn't "respect" it's projection and control. If Suou entered the relationship knowing exactly how Sei expresses himself, the mature response to incompatibility is setting boundaries or leaving, not demanding a personality overhaul.
also Suou is frustratingly evasive and never clearly communicates his insecurities. Instead of having an open, mature conversation, he leaves Sei completely confused about what the actual issue is. Expecting Sei to "fix" something when Suou refuses to clearly express how he feels is unreasonable.
Comparing a physically affectionate personality to smoking is a false equivalency. Smoking causes actual harm to others. Sei’s warmth is just who he is. You’re equating a personal boundary issue within a relationship to a objective universally harmful habit.
You mention his habit “can make others uncomfortable and ruin his reputation.” But again, in the manga's reality, it doesn't. The narrative explicitly shows people reacting positively to Sei.
They say "it's to help him" But for that to happen, Suou needs to actually communicate. Suou doesn't sit down and talk maturely, he gets evasive, passive-aggressive, and leaves Sei totally confused. You can't expect Sei to "become aware" and self-correct when his partner refuses to be clear and honest about what is bothering him.
If a partner's natural way of interacting with the world makes you that insecure, the solution isn't to frame their personality as a "flaw to be fixed"—it's to communicate clearly or accept that you might just be incompatible.
Yes everyone reacted positively bc this is in manga, so author played it safe. Think about a stranger getting this close to u, don’t ya feel weird n uncomfortable or got mixed feelings? If so sth is totally wrong with u, u need therapy. When he’s so unaware of himself that much like Suou can talk openly (when sei is that kind of person to everyone, not only Suou but everyone might think “his feelings are not real” kind of thing and dunno what to do like “break him up or keep trying?”) but he stated it so many times without blaming him like js warning him. Sei himself only noticed his actions when he got jealous over Suou. You were talking about changing a person but Suou is not changing Sei, it’s just sei’s actions are not right so he talked it. You talk loud but still wrong. Don’t reply me again bc you’re wrong but you think you’re right, so talking to u is js a waste of time.
what are you talking about? I read half only and it full with shit. “nobody felt uncomfortable” as if their shock reaction didnt explain enough. Like I said you stupid animal, he’s good looking so that’s why people ignore the fact that it’s creep behavior. you lack of common sense. I hope you get into car accident btw so you’ll be better human to this earth. “instead of having mature conversation” HE TRIED but Sei is dummy he didnt understand it. are you a teenager btw? because an adult didn’t behave this way
I get the top. I would be frustrated too if after multiple time he say it, bottom still didn’t try to change. Why the bottom get too close and touchy2 when talking to other people? he proceed to say “But I don’t have any intention” THEN WHY?? Can you talk in safe distance like a normal people? It’s uncomfortable. Just because you’re good looking, people will tolerate it. If you’re old, fat and ugly, people will call you creep & pervert.