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Dating apps

JJ2006 August 12, 2026 8:22 pm

Sorry again for bringing this up once more on here, but am I the only one that feels stupid by using dating apps. I always feel like I‘m doing a one-sided interview because the guys I match with never ask stuff about me. I’m the one doing all the questioning and they never ask back. Like why do those people even like my profile if they are not interested in getting to know me better? It‘s so frustrating. I wonder if they act like this in real life too or just online. I already see myself dying all by myself
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Responses
    soupy noodles August 12, 2026 8:30 pm

    Mostly because they are very surface level and guys on dating apps are there mostly just to f*ck. Don’t try to “find” love there, put yourself out there, if someone interests you, talk to them, if efforts are reciprocated, move on! Don’t feel too burdened.

    Mr Rover August 12, 2026 9:17 pm

    i might gonna sound rude but I though we all knew that guys use dating apps as a SEX SERVICE APP?!? like do we not know this T_T am i the only one who uses their brains and connects the dots or are y'all really that dense?!?! if u want real relationship don't search for guys on dating apps tf?!? actually i dont know what to say, sorry, im not a person to say anything abt this whole straight dating ie women dating men bc im 4B frfr. like i genuinely dont think it's worth it for women to date men

    ayiluv August 12, 2026 10:15 pm

    Aren't dating apps just for hook-ups? Never seen genuine relationships form out of them, don't use it bruh

    ayiluv August 12, 2026 10:29 pm

    I mean you'd rather find love or click with someone not through dating apps, people there just want a quickie or shallow relationships, and I went through your profile and read the story of your 2 dates with the guy you went on a date with. I think you're genuinely trying but there's not many good enough people in this who are also looking out for a genuine relationship as you might be. And if you'd like to talk or want a friend then I would be glad to :) I'm 20F, will hit 21 soon hahaha and I have zero dating experience as well but I have friends who have dated/dating so there are a few things I might be able to help you out with.