The third decade (sh). But it's more like the ml did it in the past and is now with scars, rather than actively doing it throughout the story.
I would say guiding hazard. it does a good job of representing sh. be aware there is sa (not between the main couple) and suicidal thoughts.
i wanna know too and also not bl, but there is a gl with both of those themes: my lesbian experience with loneliness
im also interested to know if there are any bls that touch on ed
Play prtend for sh but it's very subtle so idk if it counts for you
Cocoon of the heart
For my weirdo
The man who can't taste
Amber alert
There is one on body dismorphia and kind of ed but I forgot the name
TW: Sh and Ed ] Are there any BL manhwas with one or both of these topics? I want representation of myself but I was only able to find 2 and one out of the both of them made the person struggling with sh like the stereotype