maybe its is the Westerner in me but how are you gonna give the guy you barely know a fair chance around your child but when the baby’s father is trying to become an active parent and has started to do so you don’t let him that’s not fair to the bio dad let’s be honest
Exactly, allowing him to meet your child and hold him after years of not seeing him is odd. Plus, Oto was apprehensive about the baby daddy getting to see and know their child. What type of nonsense is that.
I wouldn’t even trust him with my child because he could probably kidnap my child to get me to come home to marry him. I’m not doing any of that.
I'm at a loss with Oto right now. I get that Shuga is still a student, but to make a life-altering decision for the baby and everyone involved without at least saying something to Shuga feels wrong. Like, your ex-fiancé is back, saying he'll marry you and take in your child, okayyy, but what about your baby's father, who has stated that he would like to take care of you and your child? I get that Oto hasn't made a decision yet, but he seems willing to agree, and I find that unfair to Shuga. I understand that Oto is an adult and is probably thinking about what is best for Shuga and their baby, but I don't know. Would marrying this new guy really be the best decision?