Actually that is a problem. A man who is okay even if you do anything. Doesn’t get jealous, doesn’t get angry, is okay with loving you from a distance is actually a problem.
In Yuri's position, it's not that he's okay if you do anything... it's just that he loves you so much that he'll endure it all if it can make things better. when Yuri said he was fine loving from afar, because Yuri's love was very quiet but always there. Yuri's emotions are very stable and it's not something to be jealous of... that's why Yuri's love is truly the definition of love itself. without expecting to be loved in return, just looking from a distance and hearing news from people we love is enough to give peace to Yuri's heart.
I think it's coz gable love was and still somewhat platonic. Though it changes over the years they stay together
Well that okay until the point where the other person doesn’t love you back. Then it is okay if he is loving from a distance. But once the other person accepts and you are still aloof, then I personally wouldn’t want that. I don’t really want to spoil anything. I have read the novel. Yuri initially felt really nice but later on, I was just irritated. But ofc not everyone would share the same opinion
Yuri isn’t aloof acct I’m also a novel reader lmao, I’ve re-read it many times Yuri just felt unworthy of Xinlu and didn’t expect Xinlu to reciprocate his feelings....
But what about the end part. Xinlu confessed to yuri and wanted him to stay together obviously. But Yuri was still like- yeah, whatever. Like how do you act so chill after your unrequited love, loves you back! In the end xinlu had to beg yuri to stay. Like lol. What love?
Yuri felt like it was all a dream, that Xinlu’s feelings for him were actually real, because he genuinely wanted nothing but Xinlu’s happiness, even if that happiness wasn’t with Yuri. So when Xinlu firmly told Yuri again, that was when Yuri finally realized that Xinlu truly liked him, and that it wasn’t just Xinlu stubbornly wanting to sign a lifetime contract.
When Yuri asked why Xinlu was so adamant about making the contract a lifetime contract, asking if it was because Xinlu liked him, Xinlu didn’t answer. So it’s not that Yuri was ignoring Xinlu’s feelings. Xinlu himself still didn’t understand what he wanted from Yuri. And that’s why it was so meaningful when Xinlu eventually emphasized that Yuri was what he wanted, not the contract.
You’re just not capable of understanding how beautiful Yuri’s love is.
And when Yuri hesitated, it was because Xinlu was asking him for a greedy kind of love, while Yuri is the kind of person who doesn’t want to agree to something he knows he can’t fulfill. That’s why, once again, Yuri was thinking about what was best for Xinlu. He didn’t want to hurt Xinlu by promising him a kind of love that he might not be able to give.
Yuri’s love is very quiet and calm, but it’s always there.
So I said the same think, did I not?? Thats exactly what I said. Yuri also has a condition. His love is not unconditional. It’s like if you love me, you have to accept that I am bad at showing it. I am going to be calm and quite all the time. Not gonna change that. He would rather give up on Xinlu so easily. Like I said- you can like that. But it’s me! I am a different person and I personally do not like calm quite love. I don’t like someone who would rather give up than fight for me. Okay? It’s a personal choice. You don’t have to defend him so much. I am not a fan of calm and quite love. Someone who is okay being away from me. Someone who doesn’t care whether I am in their life or not- cuz they can love from a distance.
Ohhh, so basically Yuri’s love just isn’t your type of love???? Then keep that opinion to yourself, because that doesn’t mean everyone else is going to think the same way as youuu, babe....... Xinlu actually loves the way Yuri loves him, but he wants Yuri to be much more possessive and greedy with his love. And honestly, I’m the sameee. I love the way Yuri’s love is so calm and quiet.
Are you a little cracked in the brain?? When did I ever say people have to agree with me? Right from my first comment, I have specifically said that it is my opinion and people can disagree with it. Why are you getting so personal and agitated. And no, Xinlu doesn’t like yuris love lolol. He just accepts it because he doesn’t want to let go of yuri. That is what people actually in love do. Go touch grass
Yeah, you never said everyone has to agree with you, but what do you mean by saying “that’s actually a problem”??? That’s only a problem for you because Yuri’s way of loving isn’t the kind of love you like. And just wait until Chapter 47, when Xinlu admits that he loves the way Yuri loves him because it suits Yuri so well.
“Thats actually a problem” for me! I do not like that kind of love. Thats it. Why is it so hard for you to digest? You can have such love in your life. I hope you meet a guy like yuri. Well, not for me. I would never like it. I do not like someone so passive. I love passion, yearning and someone who would fight for me. Someone who would do anything to be with me! Not someone who would be like “it’s okay even we are not together, I’ll love you from a distance” HELL NO.
A man who would accept you as you are, and give you love and care even without expecting anything in return. I WOULD KILL FOR A MAN LIKE DAT!