agree with this a 100 percent. codename anastasia, jinx, roses and champagne & etc are so shit ngl. you could make a great story WITHOUT the rape (that doesnt even bring anything bro, if it gave some lore or smth else then fine) but nooo, most of the manhwas are being written and consmued by straight women who think its sexy when its two men. and at least 1 out of 3 manhwas I try to read are with rape, so we DEFINITELY need a hash tag for this
I think you missed my whole point, I said the GLORIFICATION OF THE RAPE, no one should be reading it if it's glorifying it like in jinx, if it's for awareness then of course but if it's erotically portrayed and you call a rape that was erotically portrayed 'AWARENESS' then you'd be wrong, awareness should not be erotically portrayed
Not sure if it's a hot take, but I'm genuinely tired of excessive smut in BLs that are not PWP. Some manhwas would have 80 chapters, 40 of which are just sex. I've seen it all, there's nothing in a sex scene that could make me go "wow, that surprised me". I'm bored, let's go back to the character interactions, the development, the romance. And I don't mind sex scenes, but I think that if you're writing a love story, there should be a time and place for them. I'm so over 3 chapters of plot and 5 of smut. It gets to a point where the protagonists don't know anything about one another and have barely had any bonding time where they talked or did nice things together/for each other, but we're supposed to buy that they're in love just because they're compatible in bed.
Hon, i didn't miss your point, glorifying and acknowledging is different. Glorifying is like saying rape is a kink or something, acknowledging it on the other is saying "oh shi that's sa/rape because he didn't consent". I should've elaborated more on my hot take I'm sorry. Let me rephrase it then, I'm not talking about jinx, passion, or ca, I'm talking about nice to see you. there was clearly sa happening but people are denying it instead of acknowledging it, now if you acknowledge it people will say don't read it or then stop reading it, what I mean is, I saw and understand that what happened was SA, but they're both freaks, they both sa'ed each other but never cared about it. It's different from Kim Dan where he showed obvious discomfort and distress. That's what I meant, sorry omg. I'll still read nice to see you again tho.
in the novel of codename Anastasia, it was never romanticised nor glorification of rape, in fact. It was so gory and disgusting cause it would go in depth of how bad it is. Thats why I was so annoyed but the adaptation of the manhwa, the way the angles, colours and expressions show more of it being 'tame' and almost 'romantic' at times when in the part of the novel, it was one of the most hardest parts for me to read at the time, it ruins the whole 'horror' aspect it had in the first part of the story. The second part of the story (called nameless star volumes 6-10) is more romantic, but had a shit ton of angst, so the romance barely lasted.

My personal "hot take" is the fact that rape is way to glorified in these bls like I'm exhausted, I wish there was like some kind of SA tag, even if we had that tag it would be considered romance, yes I call this a hot take because EVERY TIME I call it out I get dislikes from those who are probably into that shit, it's not even CNC it's straight up rape, a good example is Codename Anastasia, you can't even say that's for 'awareness' because it's quite literally erotically portrayed (two likes, two dislikes, exactly my point hating glorified rapeslop is a hot take apparently)