ikr!! neglect is a form of abuse, at least dedicate one parent to be with the other child and have them celebrate his birthday. If they actually cared for the healthy child, the healthy child will have better empathy and understanding towards the sick sibling
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That’s exactly what they were supposed to do. I’m not delusional, I know that the parents have to pay more attention to their sick child but that doesn’t mean you can’t pay any attention to your other child. They need attention and affection as well. This is poor parenting and it’s your fault your children have a poor sibling relationship and it’s a damn shame!
As a parent I learned not to judge other parents because I have no idea what I would have done in the same situation. But I would have left dad with one in the hospital and properly celebrated the birthday with the other that's for sure.