To me he's a green flag because I see his mental state as absolutely relatable (of going through the motions, giving all other people what they ask just in order to be able to briefly have one thing for himself and to himself, before he gets forced to continue living the suffocating, repressed life that others have chosen for him, and of always being controlled by others...) To me, he's kinda pitiful...

like is the ml a green flag and is it a well rounded romance or is it some bull and shit