I'm in need of some ukes who would never ever look like ukes because they are to proud or ...

'Flaver' by Sachimo, maybe?
The seme's not a crybaby, but the uke definitely doesn't look like an uke... They look like a
reversible couple, but are not unfortunately... hehe
Try giving it a shot... it's a mafia×detective manga.. if I recall correctly

All of these have Ukes that don't look like the typical small shy uke. It's a variety of different types though but all have good endings and are low on angst.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koisuru_boukun/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/wonderful_days/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/la_satanica/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/momoiro_junjou_danshi/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/heart_strings/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/lens_goshi_no_binetsu/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tonari_ni_iru_no_ni_tooi/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dog_style/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nirameba_koi/

Or you could also try 'App'... It was uploaded today, I think... A bit odd at first, but yeah..
muscular uke and cute seme.. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

raid my list and tags. we have the same taste. you'll never lack of mangas to read ever again.
for starters: http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/22922/

They did try to though lol. Look at third panel:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/flaver/sa/sa-v1c004/pg-12/

True true... I guess so..
That one chapter where we all thought they'd switch tho hehe