He can be afraid, he has trauma so what?. If every decision of people depends on their past, then who we are?.
I can underestand him though, but never ever loving him at least, he is gold digger and it is truth. If we should consider everyone’s past, we should really underestand and defend non humanly things, killers, rapists too?. I am sure they havr their own past too, they have mental things too. Underestanding is possible though forgiving is impossible.
And if he wants he would tried hard /he is good at math, it is easy to him/ and get scholarship or something. A lot of people who suffer even more difficult are doing this while u depending gold digger. What i mean is “choice” is limited, but decision does not belong it.
Do not really think that situation affect every decision of human. I barely saying that humand are just like doll, robot.
Oh i wrote “i”, i was supposed to write “u are almost saying tat humans are just like dolls, robots”
And he has his conscious, but if u see a lot of people who suffers trauma, they did something unconsciously. I can not really blame them. But hye sung is different.
He never had any issues with Byul, he just thought Dojin would force him to take care of the baby himself. It never implied he hates kids or thinks they're a burden.
I read the first replies and I just can‘t cope up with the dumbness of those I- like of course you consider the past of the human most of the times like the past forms you present self
Then who are those are not
He is a friggin teenager. He's barely 20 years old. Even Dojin said this. What do you expect him to act like a young, responsible, adult would be? On top of that he never truly understand the concept of being loved and loving someone. Rather than gold digging, i think he was just trying to survive. That's the only thing he knows how to do since he was young.
Honestly, the way you think is very black and white. You projected an ideal situation. But honey, shit happened in life. You made mistake, you realized how you have fucked up, and then you learnt from it.
Your argument is that he is 19 years old, not very strong. You can make whatever arguments you want about maturity, but ANYONE should be able to function in society by 18. You also only look at Hyesung's age, not acknowledging that Dojin isn't much older, but HE handled this how it should've been handled. It wasnt just Dojin who brought Byul into the world, it was Hyesung who jumped Dojin and said "I want a baby". You'll probably argue that he didn't want to, as thats the basic argument everywhere, but thats entirely speculation as he only said he wanted an abortion immediately following finding out he is pregnant and the evidence actually completely contradicts that line of thinking as Hyesung was attached to Byul well before he was born and was worried as hell about him when he left. I'll accept your reasoning for SOME of his actions, more specifically the things he isn't directly to blame for. The thing is, a lot of his problems are directly his fault since he didn't take proper precautions once he found out he was an omega and his attitude at any given moment isn't really justifiable when you take in the entire situation and not just Hyesung's. Dojin didnt mean for any of this to happen either, he was just trying to help a stranger that just fell into his lap, he literally offered to completely pay his living expenses while he looks for a job and that was before he had feelings for him. Hyesung just kept going into heat.
Of course it was his faults. I never said he wasn't. But you guys are being way too hard on his character given his background story what he's seen from his childhood. Like I said his immaturity outlook in life is basically stemming from his trauma. You guys can either address the elephant in the room or basically just keep spouting about your hate with Hye Sung. What you guys are hoping from him is not smthng that in line with his character. If you at least learn a little bit of psychology you would understand how they would almost always fall into the same cycle because they would act the same. Hye sung is like a broken child, having to go through teen pregnancy. Scared shitless because first he doesn't exactly have a good role model of A+ parenting, second realizing he had to go through the same thing as his mom because the idea that he's omega and could never be loved is so ingrained within him.
I agree sometimes Dojin has to take so much from Hye Sung. But what I'm hoping from all that was sooner or later Hye Sung will realize Dojin's kindness, affection and sacrifices are not smthng to be taken for granted and need to be appreciated before it's too late. Now that hye sung has dojin unconditional support and love, maybe he will slowly learn how to have a healthy way of thinking instead of being manipulative and self centered all the time. Dojin knows all along after all loving Hye Sung will not be an easy walk for him but he choose to stay and keep loving him. It's his adult decision and so from his side it should be expected he at least would receive this kind lf response from Hye Sung albeit it being so sad for him.
I'd prefer it if you respond to me, not "you guys". I understand Hyesung's past, i dont particularly hate him, all i was doing was acknowledging that he played a huge part in all of this because your last response was focused only on Hyesung's past.
ok, I apologize if I offended you with 'you guys'. Is just that, I think in yaoi, uke was expected to accept a lot of things and still be kind even when things are shit for them. But when it comes to the seme, it is so easy to empathize with them if they're shit with a tragic/traumatic background story. In reality everyone at one point of their life may have gone through something that shape up their personality. There's no specific way how people will act on things. But we also should understand we will be responsible for the choices we make in our life. I am just glad tbh that Hye Sung found Dojin. He would be more shit if he didn't go through this ordeal. I hope Dojin's love for Hye Sung too will be reciprocated back, equally. They both deserve to be happy.
Yes, i'm glad they finally are together. :^)
Like really I can‘t hate him. I actually totally understand the way he acted. Just look, you see your mother omega (at this rate he just understands that omegas can‘t do anything against it. Children can think like that sometimes, they don‘t have such complicated minds as adults) being beaten up by your father, she runs away when you are a CHILD and leaves you with a father that abuses you mentally and tells you as a CHILD that you are nothing but a mistake and worthless. The child just sees that omegas are weak and children are troublesome because he has been told it his whole childhood life, which is a strongly meaningful part. Even tho he is a genius he is full of insecurities that also make him look a bit dumb and naive (even tho yeah I admit genius doesn‘t mean mature) but the way the weebtoonist pictured the actual truth is great. You can‘t possibly love a child the next second and be happy when you find out that you are pregnant while being only told that you are a problem when being a child. Hyesung has been living in his little hell while trying to float over financial and mental problems and he can‘t go like „OMG I‘m preggy! I actually found out that i‘m an omega not so long ago who always seemed so weak to me and only made for one thing but pff! And I mean I got preggy from a man idek! And my das always told me that I am not worth it! But whatevs even tho I NEVER recieved love Imma just love this child out of the blue along with this man who raped me at least twice while being twice the size of mine! I should just love him!“ the next second. A human that never recieved love can‘t possibly love the next second. He was never spoiled or anything he never has enough money for something he just tried to survive in the world that seemed for him the worst, since he didn‘t know it in any other way.