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welcome to my Ted talk— MD is Wrong, chanwoo did nothing wrong

Stabrina May 30, 2020 3:14 pm

We all know that BL logic dictates that they get together after this but I really hope they don’t.

What MD did was fucked up and honestly Chanwoo wasn’t in the wrong. He went to ask his Dom for permission to date because they had agreed to keep a strictly professional relationship. He wasn’t planning on dating behind his dom’s back which shows he really respected MD.

But then MD uses the other sub who just betrayed and hurt Chanwoo to hurt Chanwoo even more. I don’t want to believe that Chanwoo just used the safe word out of just jealousy. Sure there was probably some there but he only started crying when MD smiled. In Chanwoo’s eyes MD was enjoying Chanwoo’s misery and was putting so much emotional damage on him of course he was going to break.

To simplify Chanwoo’s tears as just jealousy would be dumbing down this horrific situation MD forced him into. Yes, forced him into. Sure he could have said no, but he just lost his boyfriend who was a traitorous scum and he was about to lost his Dom too if he didn’t go along with this. Also who would want to lose their partner to their betrayer? MD knew that no wasn’t really an option so he happily hurt a Chanwoo for his own self satisfaction. I don’t know too much about the BDSM world, but I’m pretty sure putting your sub through this level of emotional abuse is a big no and no amount of aftercare can really make up for the shit MD just pulled.

Do I want them to get together? Eventually. But not because of this.

Responses
    Biss May 30, 2020 4:39 pm
    1. I never ever use the word abuse, YOU DID! cause abuse NEVER happens here. the fact you even using it show you don't know the meaning behind the word.2. if you can say hurting other people's feelings, while y... maychan

    Lmfao you have to be troll because no one can be so dull

    Stabrina May 30, 2020 5:49 pm
    Lmfao you have to be troll because no one can be so dull Biss

    Lol ikr? They definitely don’t know abuse when they see it which is super concerning. And comparing turning down someone’s offer to date as being as hurtful as being coerced into sucking another dude’s dick, that you hate. sounds like they’re the ones too young for this

    jollybunny012 May 30, 2020 9:13 pm
    1. I never ever use the word abuse, YOU DID! cause abuse NEVER happens here. the fact you even using it show you don't know the meaning behind the word.2. if you can say hurting other people's feelings, while y... maychan

    “I’m a blubbering baby and I love sucking cock that knows how to whip me back into place! Wah wah people should learn how to be such a good little sub like me!” ( ◠‿◠ )

    jollybunny012 May 30, 2020 9:14 pm
    1. I never ever use the word abuse, YOU DID! cause abuse NEVER happens here. the fact you even using it show you don't know the meaning behind the word.2. if you can say hurting other people's feelings, while y... maychan

    “I’m a blubbering baby and I love sucking cock that knows how to whip me back into place! Wah wah people should learn how to be such a good little sub like me!” ( ◠‿◠ )

    QingTheB May 31, 2020 1:55 pm
    I know everyone's been saying it in the replies but I genuinely cannot thank you enough for this comment this is exactly what I've been preaching since like 3 chapters ago and I feel like no one has agreed or h... SomethingStupid

    Actual and factual baby

    QingTheB May 31, 2020 1:58 pm
    in other words, it's okay to hurt someone else feelings cause you can and MD should respect that others ignoring his feelings?! that only common sense by the way when someone says he is in love with you. the fa... maychan

    Yes your first sentence is entirely true, it's okay to ignore or hurt someone else feelings cause you can. The other person has to deal with that because nobody is entitled to anybody else, and that's on freedom of self hun

    QingTheB May 31, 2020 2:11 pm
    1. I never ever use the word abuse, YOU DID! cause abuse NEVER happens here. the fact you even using it show you don't know the meaning behind the word.2. if you can say hurting other people's feelings, while y... maychan

    Ohhh I see you a bit wild huh.
    How you gon compare this grown ass man willfully meeting Chan's boyfriend to Chan being forced to have sex? Which may I mind you is rape?
    Even if you say Chan was "given a chance to leave", manipulation is everything in this case, and you can damn well see that Chan was uncomfortable in that situation, that wasn't something he wanted.
    1. They used the word 'abuse' because there was abuse; abuse and manipulation to say the least. You gon look at MD using Chan and making him have sex with someone who hurt him and say that's not abuse?
    2. Are you seriously comparing MD's feeling and everything he AGREED TO to Chanwoo being respectful and respecting their BUSINESS relationship but still getting walked all over and literally molested?
    3. Your mindset is entirely undeveloped and if you're not "too young" (meaning if you are older) you really need to work on some things
    How you gon prioritize some feelings over an entire human being who has the right to say 'no' (be it fiction or not). You on a rape type beat and you need to stop. Good day hun

    maychan May 31, 2020 2:28 pm
    Ohhh I see you a bit wild huh.How you gon compare this grown ass man willfully meeting Chan's boyfriend to Chan being forced to have sex? Which may I mind you is rape? Even if you say Chan was "given a chance t... QingTheB

    1. it wasn't abuse - HE HAD A CHOICE!

    2. it never was respectful if Chan can walk all over someone else feelings like he did and even have the shame to come back to MD with another guy. they never really had only "BUSINESS relationship" if MD had feelings for him.

    3. you a child and you can't come back with a better comment, yap it clear. if you a child don't read stuff you can't handle and called it abuse, okay child?

    the rest of your bs, let's see "it's okay to ignore or hurt someone else feelings cause you can. The other person has to deal with that because nobody is entitled to anybody else, and that's on freedom of self hun"

    you basically saying it's okay to ignore or hurt someone else feelings...and the other person has to deal with it, then Chan have to deal with someone else getting his place and MD demands too. there is nothing wrong then with what MD did if Chan can do it, so can MD. they are not baby's, they both grown-ass adults that can decide what to do in their lives. or you just saying bs that doesn't make sense at all cause you an idiot ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    QingTheB May 31, 2020 3:11 pm

    Alright me and every single other person here is an idiot bahahahah

    Man your skull is thick. You should take a few classes on say: 'civil human rights', 'consent and how to recognize it', 'how feelings doesn't trump over logic and human right' and maybe 'how to not be a douchebag in general'

    Update your mind hun, your ignorance is showing

    Biss May 31, 2020 4:37 pm
    Alright me and every single other person here is an idiot bahahahahMan your skull is thick. You should take a few classes on say: 'civil human rights', 'consent and how to recognize it', 'how feelings doesn't t... QingTheB

    In their way of thinking people who face abuse in relationships, marriage... don't face any abuse because they had a choice because could have left any moment.