they added a reply to something i said earlier, and one of their replies isnt visible... i think it was deleted but i can still see it partially from my notifications it goes as follows
"They left the thread because you have an immature and combative attitude. you are clearly not capable of accepting advice or criticism. Calling people cowards on ...... reply
also can i just mention how this dude will, AND HAS talked about peoples issues on more than one occasion right in front of them. me, him, and this other girlw ere basically a friend group last year and they had a falling out bc she just stopped talking to both of us(she had done it to me before, i had never really thought about it and usually just...... 1 reply
everyone calling op toxic but ong who cares. op clearly has a set of values that their friend used to share. when those values are broken, why wouldnt the friendship?
and op is right, a lot of teens dont realise it but they have a responsibility to not end up in situations like these. youre poor, no stable father for the child either so its just y...... 1 reply
im not a redditor. ok well i am but only for about 4 years and i just ask about clothes, club acitivities, college, that kind of stuff you know? but occasionally, i go on there to rant/vent.
ive known for a while that reddit has a huge problem, so i dont know why this is getting to me so bad, but i HATE when people perceive me as something that is just not true!! so, i will share a post i contributed to r/vent, and follow with my problem.
--------------------------------------- why is it... that when someone is interested in me and i become interested in them, and our doomed relationship inevitably fails (because im like material but never love material but i digress) THEY ALWAYS GO... "i like pale guys" OR, trying to discretely reject me just say some bullshit about some character trope they like but add "white" before it...?
WHY ARE YOU EVEN SPEAKING TO ME... ofc i have distanced myself from everyone who has said this to me already BUT WHY.... when a black person rejects a white person i assume theyd say outright if they have a preference for their own race before they have some kind of will they wont they, "ill flirt with you most days despite there being something so OFF about you i cant even see you past our 6th monthiversary" shenanigan situationship. or is it just a test run to see if you can handle someone of my complexion long term or if just the sight of something black alone will always make you SICK TO YOUR STOMACH!!!!
sure, there are plenty of things wrong with me, all of which i am aware of and do my best not to burden the people i care about, unless i am venting like i am now, and only with explicit permission. but i do not put that standard on everyone. for those i care about i am EXTREMELY tolerant. and sometimes people are like baby birds, delicate and need to be treated softly, and so i do not mind doing just that. but never.... NEVER.... in my life have i encountered someone who is just so sad, so miserable, so sensitive, and so STUCK in their ways yet STILL have the audacity to take my kindness, my generosity, my TAME TEMPER FOR GRANTED!!! you treat me like im hideous, and sometimes even like im dumb? i have a diploma and degree at the age of 18, leaving to the top university in the state on a full ride, and what do you have? oh youre working on your ged? good good.... youre applying to more jobs so you can leave the one where everyone is an bitch and you take it up the ass cuz youre a pushover? oh my goodness im so proud of you...
maybe my struggle of a life was a gift, once compared to the coddled, rapunzel treatment a homeschooler gets. i know how to be alone. i know how to go into a store and by stuff on my own. i dont get overly stressed and upset all the time like a fucking fish!!! and maybe if instead of telling me how you dont listen to me, how i make you mad, how much i annoy you, or maybe if you couldve come to see me just once when i needed you most... or at the bare minimum, treated me like the friend you say i am..... then i wouldve supported you, just like i did before. ---------------------------------------
following posting this, one of the first few comments I received was calling me racist. now, BELIEVE ME.... I am not denying the fact of whether i am or am not racist. but BEING racist and having racist views, are 2 different things. i need to know what they thought of me because it is driving me crazy!!!! i will add screenshots below of the rest of the comment thread. but please im so stressed im shaking over this
everytime i talk about one of my friends and what he does, everyone swoons bc hes so kind and caring or whatever. and yeah, he remembers what i like, he does things for me, hes comforting(to an extent) and hes a hardworking and intelligent individual in general. but that fucking mouth.
holy shit i have had actual enemies that talk nicer than him. i do things wrong, im a little ditzy, i act a little slow sure, but that gives you no right to talk down to me and give me the most disgusted face like i shat in your food. he acts like we are the same, you are white, you are not as poor as i am, or the rest of us in this city. you have friends. you have a CAR hand me down or not. you actually go to the hospital when youre sick. you have a THERAPIST.
but god forbid i watch steven universe a bit too loud, god forbid i enjoy heartstopper even a little bit, god forbid i fuck up my project in a biology lab, but at the very least dont LOUDLY declare that i fucked it up in the worst way and have my entire group laughed at.
and you didnt HAVE to tutor me in biology but me saying i didn't know ADP+phosphate counts as an input does NOT mean i dont make an effort in it and just try to memorize you, you dont fucking know what i do.
also you are the most boring individual ive ever met. for someone with so many fucking things wrong with you, you choose to talk about the most underwhelming things. no i dont wanna hear about how your toxic ex manipulated the girl you were supposed to have BLOCKED or how the guy who absolutely disrespected you a month ago stared at you during some school event or some guy crying in front of you saying he cant like you bc hes not gay is a "traumatic experience". its at best an inconvenient situation.
last year i was visibly sad and when my teacher asked you whats wrong with me you just said i "just cant hide my feelings as well as everyone else". my bad bro, but it seems like you dontdo it as well as you might think either since you make every bad day everyone elses problem.
i have no idea how so many people like you and i also have no idea why you would say you hate heartstopper bc its stereotypical. nga YOU are a stereotypical gay. youre a stereotypical everything and i genuinely woukdnt be surprised if you had a fucking cheese drawer or some shit. also kys i hate every lab we have bc working even in the same room as you is fucking unbearable
reply your name, age, gender, pronouns, and optionally your personality and the type of person youd wanna ve friends with(or just things youre into like music, art, etc.)
ill go first my name is axel im 13 almost 14, male he/they and im kinda clingy, annoying, sorta funny, and im into anime, comics, drawing and painting.
did how keep yourself happy
