I’ve been trying to find some good yuri that isn’t obviously made for men. (ex: unrealistically huge boobs, overly sexual depictions of women, no plot)
Anything with a really good plot and cute wlw
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/colorful_antinomy/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hanamonogatari/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/if_you_can_t_kill_me_love_me/
a few that i personally like for all the reasons you listed (they dont come off as heteronormative, male gaze-y, overly sexualised) <3
The author gave up around chapter 60 and the ending was rushed
SPOILER
basically she doesn’t have the guts to do anything and he locks her up. had so much potential