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As some whose in their late twenties and never been in a relationship and is gay, the constant need for others to tell you when are you dating and that you need to find a person of opposite sex to marry so my family can be happy is so infuriating and exhausting. My family has accepted me but it really does anger me when I hear that they I think I’m confused because haven’t been with opposite sex or that I’m traumatized and that’s why I’m confused from my SA, or that I just need to go out with the opposite sex now and have kids already, and are constantly asking me when is that happening when I have constantly remind them I’m not interested in that type of relationship it will be with a same sex partner and they just laugh it off ignore me and that the same convo another day. People really do forget being gay isn’t a choice it’s you as a person who shows love in their own way just like everyone else. So yeah seeing this is heartbreaking, no matter how many times you tell someone your truth they are only to go by what they believe should be true. I hope MC and ML go to the wedding and put his brother to shame of how big of a homophobic asswhole he is others.

Thank god they finally talked it out like adults may the drought be over now, I hope the families are able to patch their relationships so they can be open about their love in front of others

Thank you for updating the story I’ve been waiting for ever and I really like this story so much. For sure one of my favorite situationship stories lol I know people tend to dislike stories that have SA themes and actions I get why people would dislike it because we should never encourage that type or behavior/relationship in romance stories but I mean I’ve read so much WORSE that its one of the stories I don’t mind because the MC is legit a person who can actually handle themselves and its stated many times and even though it seems like ML is “grooming/harassing” him, MC is an adult and does consent to their actions. Idk no one is ever happy when it comes to an ML that has an upper hand in the relationship but they seem to really care about each other genuinely so I’m hopeful they start to build an honest relationship with genuine love instead of a limbo situationship where the ML makes it seems he hates the person touching him when in reality he just doesn’t know how to express or understand his feelings. Complex characters/stories cause complex feelings. Stories are stories whether bad or good. So at the end of the day just find a story that better aligns with your taste instead of hating on the author, because the authors that deserve true hate don’t ever get their comeuppance.

Thank you for blessing us with this feast, the wait was worth it, happy to be back reading this gem

I agree with Jaehyuk in that if we are not gonna have a serious conversation like adults about our relationship and your just gonna run away with pointless excuses what’s the point of continuing a relationship where my partner is secure enough to stay with me no mater what I do. As a gay person myself I understand Gram, it’s honestly internalized homophobia and fear/shame with oneself and identity. I was outed too by accident from a co worker who worked with me and my aunt and he thought it was so nice that my family was so supportive in my gay identity since lots of people weren’t that open to it yet before the pandemic. And so she told my mom since she’s extremely homophobic and my mom who was paranoid my whole like that I was gay tore me up on my 21st birthday saying that I was a liar and that lifestyle was hard and that I was her only child and that and I was ruining my life and same sex relationships were disgusting abnormal, and that I had to choose either being straight or gay and I couldn’t take it back. She apologized a year later on my 22nd birthday by throwing me a pride dinner, and my family still love and support me but I also feel sad when they say they wish I still end up in straight relationship so that they could have that comfort of be being normal. But yeah I’m in my late 20s still gay and forever single and I wish Gram has the strength to be himself, I’m a broken person too but I love myself and I just personally need to face my inner demons before I enter a relationship but gram should know that he’s in a space where he should be happy and safe and that all the negatives shouldn’t matter as long as your happy and you love yourself and your partner. I hope he realizes that soon before he regrets letting the relationship sour more.

Omg thanks for updating I love this manga

Man I remember reading this when I was in my last year of highschool which reminded me that this year with the official update was 10 years ago like thanks for reminding me im old now lol but side note I have read this like every two to three years because the arts pretty and the scenes are hot but it does always mess me up knowing the abuse and trauma I got to read through to get to the happy ending. But like the saying goes everyone who read BL/Yaoi nowadays don’t know the struggle we had to find healthy loving manga. We were literally in the trenches reading all the curse toxic boys love

I’m actually really loving how the story is progressing and the complicated dynamics that are sitting up. I actually love that Vic thought that Henry didn’t love him because of what he did when he was alive and I think it’s just the opposite, it shows from head heart and dick, now that Henry is divided in 3 it doesn’t change the fact that he loved him, the fact that they all love Victor in their own way shows how deeply Henry loved him and continues to do so in his death and rebirth. I think like Victor says if he was more honest with him when he was alive he’d actually would had loved him like he wanted because they both have toxic love traits. I think Henry’s love language was yearning so cheating on Victor made sure that he would never leave him and his main goal was to make him insanely jealous to the point that Henry would lock him up with his love. I think he wanted Victor to display it emotionally with authority but like Dick and Head said his pride was the greater emotion than his love. I honestly wouldn’t be mad if they all return to on person but I love the idea that all 3 “Henry’s” will show and prove to Victor that they loved him all along and them being a poly just shows that nothing wrong with having more people you love in your life, especially since they both were alone together so long

I hate reading tragedy because I hate crying my heart out with romance stories it’s so good but I know I’m gonna lose my shit if this dude dies. Ugh his best friend will not be able to handle it especially when he finds out. I also feel so bad for his sister, the love she showed him to come out and make him feel better about coming out only to homophobicly lash out on her breaks smh heart. I know it hurts her so much but I know he’s just doing it to protect her from his death and can’t process having his best friend as his lover also. He wants love and support from friends and family but he can’t deal with the heartbreak from everyone and himself. I think he’s just being in denial that he only has a short time to live that he’s literally grasping straws and just doing anything that helps him feel alive ╥﹏╥

This looks so good so sad that we gotta wait for chapters. I can’t wait to see more of the plot and they’re dynamic