this is obviously a bdsm smut w/ no strings attached manhwa… but honestly, i think there WILL be feelings in the future (hence, the safe word foreshadowing). yall, just be patient??? have you ever heard of a slowburn?? LMFAO ,, i have waited 100+ chapters for a mere kiss before, this is light work… but even if there aren’t feelings in the future (which i really think there will be) this was always a bdsm smut w/ no feelings manhwa from the beginning - the focus is smut, not love
im not quite sure why sir did that??? like it’s obvious that he was into it LOL. but it also seemed like he trying to force wookyung into using the safe word but… why? does anyone have any thoughts?
Aight so, in some media that portrays bdsm, doms will try and force the safe word out if subs so that the dom AND sub can learn their limits. From what I've seen this type of situation is used when a sub doesn't know their limits, or is "limitless", which can ultimately be dangerous. It's also a learning situation for the sub, who is supposed to learn that just because they safe worded, the Dom won't be disappointed.
Irl, I'm honestly not sure how well this practice works. I can confidently state that a sub not knowing their hard limits is extremely dangerous, but it is also a Doms thing to push the blurry boundaries to help define the limits.
In regards to the story, I sympathize with the sub, but the sub is acting like a fool. Using a phrase u find difficult to say as a safeword is ill advised. And bro was rational on it for a bit, and lost it, so the Dom stepped in.
Now don't get me wrong I DID NOT like the scene, I don't like seeing ppl freak tf out. Yes, the dom SEEMS to be in control, but the MC is a whole ass adult man who agreed to this. If he wanted out, he should've safeworded before he pushed himself too far.
Ultimately, bdsm relationships are built on trust. Trust that the dom won't take it too far, and trust that the sub will safeword if they need to. These scenes aren't in every piece of bdsm media, but they do serve a purpose. This scene was a glorified trust building exercise
i want more oh my god,, i love this family so much i cant BREATHE — theyre so cute ╥﹏╥