Looking for a Japanese bl, it starts off with MC getting screwed by ML stalker while he's "asleep". it's about MC an office worker with glasses who is over worked and too nice at the office so he takes on other people's work load to the point of neglecting himself. His coworker , black haired dude, & ml is literally perfect and takes interest in mc. ML comes over to MCs house and comes in when MC doesn't answer. ML cleans the place up and from there starts to break into MCs home, clean his place up, make him food and at some point starts to have sex with him. Mc is aware of this stalker and doesn't mind, even looks forward to him. Later find out it's actually his coworker when he asks stalker to stay. They end up together.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_secret_stalker/
I was literally just rereading this the other day haha
Bl recs withToxic Possessive tops
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/room_for_renewal/
seme beat his own friend unconscious bc mc sat next to him
I think this story was a japanese manga. AOB, a group of guys find out their secondary genders (A,O or B). I think there's supposed to be some fated type pair thing with this. They reveal their genders in school rooftop I think. One of the guy friends (alpha) bites and rapes(?) MC (omega), although it happens later in the story after the reveal of their genders. ML(alpha?) who is also friends with MC beats up guy? MC and ML had already promised to be together or get married. Years pass. ML and MC are together, they're scientists or smth like that, and MC endures heats by themself or they're like painful or smth???? Tbh don't really remember the story. Do remember a bit where the friend who rapes MC sees MC later in life and regrets what he did. Turns out they were supposed to be fated pairs but bc he raped MC, MC doesn't love him and MC always loved ML.
Is it this one perhaps? >> https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shounen_no_kyoukai/
Any recs like escape to oblivion????
I love this author's other work
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/swallow_gawee/
The art work is meh at the beginning, but it will be okay later

Any recs for bl with praise/affirmation kink? Doesn't have to focus on it, just mentioned during smut at some point by either top or bottom character. Thank you!
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/chiya_s_just_an_unstable_guy/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/motto_kawaiku_natte_ii/
Tysm, manga always pulling through
Forgot some
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/if_you_treat_me_nice_we_can_do_it/
Subverse ones
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tameshi_ni_komando_itte_mita/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oresama_dom_wa_nade_raretai/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/discipline_me_melt_me_expose_me_love_me/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/good_boy_addiction/ this one toxic tho
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_sadistic_master/ only read this one if youre cool with ddlb bdsm
Not sure if this can be categorized to praise/affirmation but it's about dom and sub and it's quite good if you want to try reading:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tameshi_ni_komando_itte_mita/