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Ulia April 9, 2026 3:30 am

Do you guys think there is a demand in grape in Yaoi and BL and that's why most of them have it?? Or why do you think this is such a big problem?

    Yana April 9, 2026 3:41 am

    Ironically, it also has a bit to do with purity culture. The bottom saying no and they don't want it make them seem "pure" and more "attractive"

    yoink April 9, 2026 3:48 am

    not exactly but there could be. i think a lot of authors incorporate r*pe into their yaois in order to grab the reader's attention as soon as possible without caring for it leaving a bad taste in some people's mouths. some authors use this element skillfully but i think a lot are unable to and use it sloppily,, rape is very different from sex but both kinda come off as erotic (even tho rape ofc isnt) nothing grabs a reader's attention better than intimacy between characters (whether or not its mutually consenting)

    Lamp April 9, 2026 3:51 am

    Uhhh Idk if there’s “demand” for it. Like,, are ppl really demanding r@pe???????????? Thats disgusting to even type. Imo I think toxic BL has become such a common trope bc readers love it & r@pe just comes with that, it’s like a package deal

    fwopfwop April 9, 2026 4:14 am
    Ironically, it also has a bit to do with purity culture. The bottom saying no and they don't want it make them seem "pure" and more "attractive" Yana

    Ironically, that mindset stems from men. And most bl artists are women, catering to women and gays.

    sottovoce April 9, 2026 4:18 am

    aside from whoever is asking for more of it(idk, maybe some people are) I think it goes without pushback from most readers (particularly in their countries of origin) and it's a convenient plot-streamlining device for authors since it establishes character dynamics and tension between characters, forces sex scenes without much setup, gives immediate sympathy points for the victim, and creates ongoing conflict for the story and relationship. when you're working on deadlines and tight page/panel counts, shortcuts like that are godsends.
    people are consistently fascinated by taboo and toxic relationships, so I'm not sure it's something that ever really dies down in popularity.
    it's most irritating to me when it's in series that aren't actually the toxic abuse-fests that seem to be having a popularity/publishing surge. that implies the creator just has a poor understanding of mutual sexual interest and consent.

Ulia April 7, 2026 7:42 pm

Help me find, BL where the ML is a talented violinist, his friend dies after he tells him he was seeing someone. He ends up meeting the same guy his friend was seeing. The guy was a prosecutor (rich) and starts pursuing the ML. He seems like a psychopath and the ML at first doesn't like him but they end up together. Any clue whats it called?

Ulia March 25, 2026 8:55 pm

Any good reccs for Yuri that's masc4masc, please something good cuz this is my first time reading yuri

Ulia March 13, 2026 10:12 pm

Im looking for this omegaverse where the ML (alpha) part of the nerdy group (white hair) is in love with his omega friend but ends up fucking the other ML (alpha) jock at a party because he was mad about something. The other ML is a masochist and keeps seeking him out.

Ulia March 5, 2026 11:50 pm

Im looking for a BL where the ML gets broken up after dating for like 10 years and then his ex shows up 10 years younger. And the the EX starts aging by 5 years each time. With happy ending.

Ulia February 28, 2026 6:32 pm

Name for BL manwha set in 1800 Ireland, he goes back go his father's young masters mansion to try and trick him for his wealth but ends up falling in love, the ML is actually a secret author that was in love with his servant and "dies" at the end. Please thank you.

Ulia December 26, 2025 4:01 am

Any 10/10 peak story yaoi/BL reccs?

Ulia October 18, 2024 11:31 am

BL where they keep each other in check but they also have insane sexual tension, like they hate each other but also want each other soo bad. Any recs?

    heha October 18, 2024 2:08 pm

    im not sure if they rlly hate each other but the sexual tension goes CRAZY:
    Flashlight

Ulia October 2, 2024 4:50 am

Pretty Top × Cool Bottom?

Ulia June 21, 2024 12:43 am

Any ideas of a story where the main character pretends to be innocent or against it but in reality they were the ones who were scheming and planned everything. Unexpected twist of character. Can be BL or Straight

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