What bothers me even more is that in KR BL novels, they only have a few ways to describe that thing, and two of them are extremely off-putting: the size of the mushroom hat is always compared to a child's fist, and the stem, when it's not a baseball bat or a water bottle, it's a child's arm 2 reply
I!!!! love!!!! noncon!!!!! In fiction, of course. In real life? I'd be interested in consensual noncon with a trusted partner, but actual rape is not anything I'd want for myself or anyone else. I don't even think it's worth asking anyone if they support sexual assault in real life because which sane person would? But as I am typing this, I am sudd...... 2 reply
Do you notice this pattern in any other part of your life? It might not just be a question of motivation.
What is your reason for participating in art events/collabs? If you just want to do some group activities, maybe pick something unrelated to art, or join an irl art club with irl events, where if you don't show up, it doesn't affect anyone else...... reply
I don't think it's dead enough since people have been asking/complaining about the disappearance of their lists over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. 1 reply
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