FuckedUpGayDude's Topics (7)

(づ￣ ³￣)づ Well, he has only died once so far.

Groundhog Day

Sorry, I had read the title, reread your comment without the title and forgot you said the name of the movie, commented, then read the title again. I'm a dunce lol. Just ignore me haha

Lmfao you’re totally okay! I do that shit all the time ╮(￣▽￣)╭

yes, my friend, this is a yaoi. not porn.

Please b ffr. Yaoi smut is literally gay porn in comic/webtoon form. Stop it

thank you I’m so tired of hearing ppl complain like we do NOT care at all

Yaoi is porn. That’s the whole reason it’s separate from sh-ai.

EXACTLY! Think of sh-ai as the K-drama ver of gay comics/webtoons and yaoi is the much more explicit, pornographic ver. It comes in all types of story forms from horror to fantasy covering things like toxic relationships too. If this is not for you, I’m not judging, just find something else that fits your vibe more ╮(￣▽￣)╭

LITERALLY LIKE???? Oh pls they even had the audacity to trash and talk sh on the author when they're already trashing by reading it illegally. Ain't no way mother mingwa is gonna listen to you silly. It's so stupid honestly. Just what did you expect it to be? Like bj Alex??

WTF ARE YOU SAYING RN ???? I’m getting so mad at theses comments Yaois still have a story line and it’s not just sex !!! Yes it originally started as a fetish thing but let’s not fucking act as if Yaois that have a story line not centered only around sex doesn’t exist Like bj Alex ??? Literally made BY THE SAME AUTHOR?????It had a story AND a lot of sex but this … this shit it’s just sex with so little story that it actually hurts to read … Stop being weird and stop fetishizing gay men you fucking deranged people

The fact that you’re here and reading this same story, does it mean you’re fetishizing gay men based on your description of the people here? Cause not everything created needs to have a super detailed, intricate story. And y u acting like toxic relationships are not a thing or a story that can be told? Like I said feel free to leave, nobody asked you to bring your negativity here babes

I don't fully agree with Yaoi = porn but @DiDi94 does have a point.

But I have to disagree with something you said. This story “Jinx” revolves around sex hence, it's the PLOT!!! His jinx is that he has SEX in order to win a match! Have you read the synopsis? The plot is plotting realistically and also situates Dan. You should be expecting to see sex regularly. And at the same time, Mingwa also paces her work whereby she brought in a new character to help the main ship discover their crisis. Have you read Jinx from JK’s POV? You can't exactly judge, right?

For you to also come here and insult people for their fetishes and assume them to be deranged is pathetic. I guess you must have donated a lot to the orphanage huh? Seeing as you read from an illegal site. Rest for real. You're just being stupidly whiny.

yk some porn has plot right? i definitely don’t support what’s going on in the story, but the art/porn is hot af. same goes with some people who jack off to step-family porn. i doubt most actually support it, but to them it’s hot. there’s some yaoi that is more story heavy, yes but there’s the other side of it too. yaoi that’s mainly just porn.

also before you say stop fetishizing gay men, i’m a bisexual guy myself. no ofc i don’t want the relationship they have- it’s disgusting. but i will admit, the art is hot af- it’s almost like hot “fantasies” atp. fetishizing gay men in this case would be to approve of their behavior in the story and view it as how “most/all gay men behave”. people should know that this isn’t realistic at all…

a good example of fetishizing gay men/relationships would be how some people view killing stalking as some sort of yaoi/romance when it really isn’t. yes they have gay sex in the story, but it’s mainly about the psychological trauma and events that go on with the characters.

i genuinely know a good amount of other gay guys who find the sex and art attractive. but NO ONE (that i’ve seen) actually agrees or supports the relationship the characters have

Thank you

For all the people telling me that I read this on an illegal site what are you trying to accomplish with that statement ???? I literally don’t get understand what point are you trying to make like do you want me to buy the chapters ??? Will I be allowed to criticize it once I buy them ???? Like stfu ??? The story is the same it’s not like you have a premium version if you pay and I’m not going to support normalizing rape Like I get the story is about Sex his jinx is that he has to have sex before a match to win it but and hear me out ok because it feels like we aren’t reading the same story HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES DID THEY HAVE SEX BECAUSE OF THE JINX ????? HOW MANY ???? LET ME TELL YOU 3-4 TIMES and how many chapters of them fucking? Way to many and it’s not like Dan always enjoys the sex all the times when they fuck Dan is disrespected and treated like a sex doll by the black haired dude whatever his name is The fact that Dan is shown to be a fucking SEXUAL ABUSE SURVIVER AND STILL HAD PTSD ABOUT IT AND THAT SOMEHOW HE STARTS TO LIKE HIS SEXUAL ABUSER AND HAS ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR HIM EVEN THO HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE HIS LOVE IS SO FUCKING DISGUSTING AND DISRESPECTFUL. I don’t care that it’s a cliché or whatever the fuck it’s disrespectful and disgusting. It’s like saying « yeah but black face is just how people used to see black people !! Is not disrespectful it’s a cliché

Definition of fetish : « to have a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs, or in a person as if they are an object » you don’t have to agree with it to fetishize it. And no wah you’re trying to normalize incest like you know that step-siblings or step- parents is still incest
Like I do agree that the art is amazing I would never criticize the art but that proves my point even more the author isn’t trying to show that this is a harmful relationship she’s treating it as if it was a normal sex relationship especially with the art they chose to use they aren’t using dark colors to show that the atmosphere is uneasy , they aren’t using uncomfortable angles to make the reader feel like this is wrong their’s nothing to indicate that this is wrong like in killing stalking (Guz as you know ks isn’t a love story !!! But a disturbing and extremely well written story about an victim falling in love with their abuser because of Stockholm syndrome) I mean you don’t need a genius to see that they way they depicted sex in ks is completely different from the way they depict sex in jinx ks is uncomfortable to read this instead feels like I should be rooting for their relationship to be better and for Dan to fall in love with black haired dude and excuse all the abuse because probably at some point in the story « he’ll change

Cuz that’s how all gay relationships are depicted in media it’s never a « normal relationship » but always something to do with drama and abuse don’t get me wrong I’m not saying that I want all bls to be boring slices of life but this is way too much like I don’t see how he can redeem himself atp and btw definition of fetish: « to have a sexual interest in an object or a part of the body other than the sexual organs, or in a person as if they are an object » friendly reminder this story was written by a cis woman that has 0 experience in a gay male relationships

I read this shit cuz I have nothing better to do and I thought it could be interesting at first but now I mostly read it to see what card is the author putting on the table to make the relationship « redeemable » so no I’m not fetishizing gay men (more so since I am a gay man ) Sure I agree with you nothing has to have a detailed plot and interesting storyline, they can fuck if the want to fuck idc who am I to tell them what to do but you see my problem with Jinx is that the author, i want you to read very well what’s coming so you don’t miss it out !!!, the author made this bl WITH ( With ! It has ! Having !) A STORY. It has the bases of a story we have the whole backstory of Dan , his childhood, his grandmother, his final situation,his traumas and even relationships with others characters!!! There’s even a bit of world building if they wanted to do something with sex they should have used an other setting like going back to the world of sex working but this story is about an mma fighter and a physical therapist atp idk what I should tell you the author wanted to make a story but instead they decided to replace it with sex and sex isn’t even used for storytelling except to show us that Dan is falling in love with black haired dude
About toxic relationships, sure there are many story with toxic relationships in it ( which btw doesn’t mean that they are well written )
But it doesn’t mean that they should exist like at least if you’re going to make a toxic relationship write it well like I’m so tired of the 2015 trope « I’m a U^U boy I’m fragile and you’re hurting me

Then stop reading. Here's the thing that's wrong with you people. You're probably another straight female that's a MINOR reading the same shit as everyone else. Don't try to act all high and mighty and thing you're educated in everything gay, especially gay sex and yaois'. As a literal gay man, go fuck off. If you want to read shit with romance, then go read an lgbt romance book.
Let me educate you on yaois. "Yaoi, also known as boys' love and its abbreviation BL, is a genre of fictional media originating in Japan that features homoerotic relationships between male characters." Let me emphasize the definition of yaoi. "HOMOEROTIC RELATIONSHIPS". Its literally just fucking sex. SO WHAT if there's some plot in a yaoi! the author made the comic as when they designed it for. If its under yaoi, its literally just going to be surrounded by gay sex. The same thing with BJ Alex, literally the plot is "blow job", sex, adult camera sex, sex toys. Literally just sex between two boys.
You cant glamorize reading yaoi and trying to defend it by saying "the plot isn't just sex", because the plot literally is simply sex.

Yaoi is gay porn. "genre of fictional media originating in Japan that features homoerotic relationships between male characters."
Homoerotic, meaning gay sex, specifically gay sex in explicit detail. Explicit detail of gay sex is porn babe. Reading this and watching Dan get a disk shoved up his ass or down his throat is gay porn love. Dont try to glamorize it, we're all reading the same porn.

literally. We're all reading the same shit for the same reason, entertainment. ヾ(☆▽☆)

Are you fucking retarded or just plain brain dead ??????? First of all I am a gay man and your probably aren’t but whatever yk what idgaf I don’t mind sex in story i’m not stupid I can fucking read I know what Yaoi means and what BL means this is not the first fucking yaoi i read bro I’ve read good Yaois with just sex in it and basically no story but they usually don’t introduce themselves as a bl that wants to have a story like you can clearly see the author has something in mind they wanted to give this a story and possibly a very interesting one but bro come on 38 chapters and their dynamic didn’t change one bit don’t give us something to look forward to if you’re going to take 100 chapters to reveal it like how tf did the dude get his jinx. not even a hint about it we know nothing but beside the story. The sex. Let’s talk about it since it’s a “porno” “It’s yaoi it’s about sex ” then why tf the sex is so toxic and disgusting don’t tell me you’re actually enjoying watching a man get abused like come on like for like half of the chapters he couldn’t even get it up because the sex made him feel awful and the suddenly one day he likes it like come on. it’s disgusting how implied it is that even if you don’t like it “if you keep going you’ll eventually get used to it ” like hello ????? In what world is this ok ????? As you said women are the targeted audience and they are told that this is how it goes their whole life like you don’t need them to see this and go “ow so it’s normal for everyone to go through this then it means that it’s ok” come on use your brain people just because it’s yaoi or porn doesn’t mean that it’s ok

Fine. I apologize for assuming you're a female, but can you blame me? 3/4 of people that read Yaoi are stupid females that think they know everything about gay sex and gay relationships.

Yet my point still stands. And I will say that I don't agree with the abusive relationships that often take place in yaoi's, but its honestly comforting for me because I was in a abusive relationship with my ex. He only wanted sex, that was it, and I wanted love. So, honestly yeah. I am fucked up for letting myself indulge in watching toxic relationships take happy turns in these fucked up stories. Lot's of the yaoi's I read are abusive, but over half of them turn out with happy endings.

I never said that it was okay, I simply said move on if you don't like it. I do like it because I'm fucked up, but can you blame me? When your abused you can either embrace it and make something out of it or you can wallow in it. And honestly, I'm still stuck between the two.

No one would, or quite frankly, should, be taken seriously if they considered yaoi “porn.”
There are minors on this site and your comment is a bit vulgar. If people had their way and porn was removed.... Yaoi would still remain.


https://jerichowriters.com/distinguishing-porn-from-erotica-as-fiction-genre/
"Porn seeks to lower, erotica to elevate. Porn is imposed, violent, debasing. Erotica celebrates sex within an adult, and with the genre of ‘erotica romance’ catching on, increasingly intense, romantic relationships."

https://feministtheoryfictionunil.wordpress.com/2013/03/18/the-difference-between-erotica-and-pornography/
" But if pornography is about sex, it is not the only area that deals with this topic. Erotism is about sex too but there is a lot of differences between these two themes. The main difference is that erotism involves feelings, while pornogaphy does not. '


https://www.timesnownews.com/mirror-now/in-focus/article/explained-how-erotica-is-different-from-pornography-and-laws-dealing-with-sexually-explicit-content/791163
What is pornography?

Pornography is considered as an act whose sole purpose is to stimulate sexual desire. According to Oxford dictionary, pornography is describing or showing naked people and sexual acts in order to make people feel sexually excited, especially in a way that many other people find offensive."

What is erotica

Erotica is any artwork that deals with stimulating or sexually arousing subject matter. This includes painting, sculpture, photography, drama film, music or literature. Erotica is considered as an artistic viewpoint of an individual and whose sole objective is to appreciate the art.

https://thegallerist.art/sacred-sexuality-erotica-vs-pornography/

https://www.editorji.com/story/in-depth-pornography-vs-erotica-is-it-time-to-stop-shoving-them-under-the-same-umbrella-1630734518210
In Depth: Pornography vs Erotica: Is it time to stop shoving them under the same umbrella?

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/love-sex/erotica-and-pornography-what-distinguishes-them/articleshow/84611425.cms

https://www.clarendonhousebooks.com/single-post/2019/08/14/the-difference-between-erotica-and-pornography

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-of-the-self/201104/what-distinguishes-erotica-from-pornography

https://www.theguardian.com/notesandqueries/query/0,,-2224,00.html

https://www.hindustantimes.com/books/writing-erotica-isn-t-as-easy-as-you-think-here-s-a-12-point-manual-on-getting-it-right/story-4raM8z9LyaEb46QAQVf45L.html


Now Stop shoving your opinion down people's throat when they are correct.

Okay, so your entire argument is that minors should still be able to read yaoi because the LITERAL EXPLICIT SEX isn’t… porn… ?

Make that make sense.

“Stop shoving your opinions down people throat”, bro what? I’m say facts. Yaoi is fuckin porn, it’s literally just reading, and in this case visually seeing sex, which is porn.
Let me remind you of the legal definition of PORN! “ material that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement”. That’s literally what yaoi is, erotic depictions of two men ‘making love’, so sex. It’s meant to excite people. So it’s literally fucking porn. Stop trying to glamorize yaoi and say it’s safe for children to read. You sound like a 13 year old that’s offended that I’m saying that porn is porn, and reading gay men having explicit sex somehow isn’t porn. Oh, wait, that’s what’s happening. Your somehow ticked off that I’m calling out the obvious. And the obvious is we all read yaoi simply because we want to watch two dudes fucking, that’s literally just READING PORN!

Minors shouldn’t be on this site in the first place, and your obviously making it worse because your saying that yaoi isn’t full of porn, which is literally is because it’s erotic sex between two men, which is the definition of yaoi and porn. So. Your argument isn’t much of an argument.

So you lost the argument to where you decided to impose an argument on me. "Okay, so your entire argument is that minors should still be able to read yaoi because the LITERAL EXPLICIT SEX isn’t… porn… ?" That is your imposing argument. more imposing arguments " Stop trying to glamorize yaoi and say it’s safe for children to read." "Your somehow ticked off" lol 98 % of my post was not my words. hehehehehe.. What are you on?

Can you have a civil conversation without imposing false arguments?


I posted many links. You are giving your opinion. You are doing personal attacks too. That makes you know you lost here. porn is porn. Yaoi is not porn. Some come close but some don't like Fake. Why don't you come back when you can handle a civil conversation? Minors should be on this site since it is not a porn site and have stories from them ike yu gi oh, sailor moon, etc.
Technically, no one should be on this site because it is illegal website. Minors should stay away from adult stories as this is marked 18 or 19 years and up. You need to handle being wrong better. I am not angry. I am not changing someone's stances or opinions, imposing arguments on someone, or attacking them, like you are me. I only posted facts with a few sentences. You are imposing emotions and that is an attempt to discredit me. But I am not those links. hehehehe. You are projecting. You are making it worse.

Yaoi is not porn. Debunked. Now go read those links. Bye. Thanks for the laugh. hehehe

Exactly what I meant. Yaoi isn’t porn. Thanks for the links.

no i get ur perspective and i do agree that the way the story is turning out is pretty gross— but personally atp i’m turning off my brain and i’m solely only reading (or rather just LOOKING) at it for the art. and since i’m too lazy to reply to ur other comment (sorry lol it’s late here for me) ik that this is written by a cis woman who doesn’t know much about gay sex. it was already clear from the get go but tbh porn is rarely ever realistic. i don’t base my sexual experiences on porn/don’t use porn as a reference for my sexual experiences. again, i def don’t like or agree where the story is heading at ALL, but that doesn’t mean i can’t enjoy the art- i dunno

this is a really fueled comment- like you have the right idea but you’re not communicating it in the best way

okay i take it back- i am gonna reply to a few of ur comments LMAO- i’m not necessarily entirely disagreeing with you, but tbh if it’s not your cup of tea, just move on. i don’t like this plot either and you have the right to share your opinion. but people also have the right to disagree (slightly or entirely). yeah this trope is annoying. i’m not reading it for the story anymore (or maybe i am but i’m “hate” reading it???) but if people do and they sincerely support this disgusting behavior… man idk what can you do??? it’s not your problem to deal with anyway. it’s someone on the internet you don’t know personally. yeah it sucks but is it directly affecting you? not really

i don’t agree with them entirely but people have the right to make opinions- even if they are “annoying” or the “minority”. it’s a public comment section after all. OP had the right to state whatever they wanted to make, and then the person who disagreed can say whatever they want either- i don’t get why it needs to be so heated tho when people disagree

Okay first of all whether or not you’re a gay man, my problem with your arguments is that they’re confrontational with very little to back them up. You’ve insulted people for having a different opinion than you and that’s not okay. And second of all the list of genre for this manga include SMUT, now if you know anything about mangas, that means one of the main theme of this is sex, meaning whatever the plot is, it will include a lot of sex (it’s a warning). And third of all, did we forget that mangas are not based of real characters? It’s a fantasy which means the author has free range to create and write whatever story they wish. And to come at them and insult them because they created a story you don’t approve of is completely rude and frankly just stupid. Honestly, I don’t know why this became an argument about the whole yaoi genre. Whether or not it’s porn or erotica, like the smut is still supposed to stimulate sexual desire and if it’s triggering for you, heed the warnings and walk away. This story is not going to please everyone and that’s okay, it doesn’t give you any right to put yourself on some high pedestal, talking about “I’m reading it still to see how the author will redeem themselves” like please F off, the author doesn’t owe you anything. Bye

I can't believe people actually think smut and erotica are the same as porn, lmao. Thanks for the links. I hate porn, but smut/erotica are ok in my book. Also, the way OP calls women "females", is just weird and disturbing. It doesn't make it anymore ok just because he is a gay man.