yaoiandotherdelusions

Yh so abt...ummm yh that was weird cuz gable said he was 25...and that was a kid like actually a kid...I as an adult would never describe a kid as my first love thats just giving crazy pedo vibes ...

A lot of people have already commented about this.
Since modern romance often ties "love" to physical desire, people tend to forget that in literature (considering this manhwa is an adaptation of a novel with the same title), first love can also be about pure admiration, appreciating someone's beauty, or even a meaningful moment that leaves a deep impression without any sexual desire at all. And that's exactly what we see here. It's still valid to call it first love. You just need to understand that love can take many different forms, so don't apply your own understanding of love to what Yuri meant when he called it his "first love," because that's obviously going to make you feel icky. If you still find it weird because Yuri was 25 while Xinlu was 12, that's exactly why POV matters. We get to see how Yuri himself describes those feelings, and based on what's actually shown in the story, they don't fit the medical criteria or legal definition of pedophilia either.

Ily girll!!!
They’re never gonna believe it. In their minds, love is literally just fucking, fucking, and more fucking.

I like your response its definitely a matter of perspective when it comes on to identifying something or someone as a first love, doesn't necessarily have to do anything with sex or romantic attraction all the time, this story definitely showed both sides of the same coin when it came on to that, even the last chapter where xinlu was talking abt what love was supposed to be, and gable did share is way of feeling or understand love in his own way without judging xinlu of his intense feelings or ways of displaying them. Either way I love this story of them both, cuz as gable said love can be many things.

Yeah, honestly, it’s such a shame

IKR?? Seriously, people just can’t understand it... Their minds just don’t seem to go that far. Even when I explain it like that, they keep using the same arguments to push back, even though I’m explaining it based on what I actually looked into, not just my own opinion

oh i just read two chapters, all i did was asking a basic quastion and here you are judging my perspective of love.. maybe you should judge your own attitude before other's questions

and please tell me, if a 25 years old adult person was in love with your 12 years old child, would you call that 'a form of love' and just accept it? if your answer is yes please stay away from my topics

I’m not judging your understanding of love. I’m just telling you that love can exist in that form too... And I’m not referring only to you, but also to the comments I often see here. And then, how do you love your younger siblings? Your older siblings? Your father? Your mother? People who are much older or younger than you??? There’s obviously no sexual desire involved, right? That’s platonic love, isn’t it? It’s the same with Yuri. He was only captivated by Xinlu’s beauty, not by young Xinlu himself.

i didn't say anything about sexual desires, i am talking about feelings yet you keep pointing it as an argument against mine instead of just replying what i ask with a yes or no. but showing us an adult person's first expression of a child as admiring and later making that child and adult person lovers is not alright to me, that's all i'm saying

Did you even read what I wrote above??? Overall, based on everything I’ve looked into, there’s nothing strange about it, because Yuri was simply admiring Xinlu’s beauty despite their huge age gap. This is what I discussed with Gemini using information about pedophilia. I don’t want to keep arguing about this if you’re just going to insist on what you think is right while refusing to accept the facts.

His gay ah wearing sandals LMFAOOO

LMFAOOOOO

oh it's nearly invisible