Love is not a thing, love are a bunch of different things depending on the person. There's chemistry, there's romance, there's each one's fantasy, some love requires sex, some love is platonic, some love is unhealthy obsession, neurodiverse people can experience love in a different way than a neurotypical. Sometimes the problem between two persons in love is not the love, but their personality and choices. Sometimes two can love each other, but in such different ways that their love is not compatible. The question isn't "what's love?". The questions would be, "how do I feel affection?" And "how do people around me feel affection?"
same for me tbh, i realised most of my feelings that i thought are romantic are actually just physical appreciation? seeing romance in comic does look cute to me but i don't understand the feelings
WAIT I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE OMG. Im not sure if we're the same but i tried reading anything lgbt to figure out why im so confused, even up till now its still not solved. Tho i find novels to be more effective than webtoons or manga here cos they're hit or miss
I wrote demisexual, aromantic and asexual.. i forgot to include demiromantic. I've been new to this really.. I'm in my 20's and rarely had crushes or being in a relationship. Realized that I can't seem to grasp love romantically(also forgot to include romantic love coz there's diff kinds of love) but rather, in need of deep emotional bond with someone to feel sexual attraction and maybe fall in love(am like demisexual and demiromantic)
Love is not a thing, love are a bunch of different things depending on the person.There's chemistry, there's romance, there's each one's fantasy, some love requires sex, some love is platonic, some love is unhe... DorianGrey
Yeah. I agree. I just forgot to include to grasp love as in romantically.
I wrote demisexual, aromantic and asexual.. i forgot to include demiromantic. I've been new to this really.. I'm in my 20's and rarely had crushes or being in a relationship. Realized that I can't seem to grasp... Fujomochi
I feel like i’m the same, i mean i did like somebody (but idk if i can call it love bc i also don’t know abt it very well) and i did share deep bonds with them until now, but I don’t think i can feel sexual attraction. In fact, i don’t think I CAN feel it to anyone especially to those i have very deep bonds with, it’s weird bc ppl are telling me you’d want to touch the person you love (romantically). I also think i won’t ever be able to love someone romantically, because when i was in a relationship, i realized that all i can provide is nothing more than what a good friend could give, there was nothing special or anything i could give that could make me more of a “lover”. Up til now, i am still confused but I just decided to go with the flow, maybe someday i’ll understand (bc even after reading a lot of romance, it’s still fiction).
same for me tbh, i realised most of my feelings that i thought are romantic are actually just physical appreciation? seeing romance in comic does look cute to me but i don't understand the feelings yea
Yep, try to research about demisexual, demiromantic, aromantic and asexual. You'll understand yourself better from this. But here's a concept about those that I mentioned. Demisexual is like you need a deep emotional bond to someone to feel sexually attracted to them. Demiromantic is like you need a deep emotional bond to someone to feel romantic feelings to them. Aromantic is you don't feel any romantic feelings or desire for romantic relationships. a person who has no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone. Actually, there's a bunch of definitions about all of these.
Yep, try to research about demisexual, demiromantic, aromantic and asexual. You'll understand yourself better from this. But here's a concept about those that I mentioned. Demisexual is like you need a deep emo... Fujomochi
Also, you can be any of these regardless of gender.
WAIT I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE OMG. Im not sure if we're the same but i tried reading anything lgbt to figure out why im so confused, even up till now its still not solved. Tho i find novels to be more effec... lolo_gold
Yeah.. am also researching for me to understand myself better(￣∇￣")
I feel like i’m the same, i mean i did like somebody (but idk if i can call it love bc i also don’t know abt it very well) and i did share deep bonds with them until now, but I don’t think i can feel sexu... What the
Yep, try to research about demisexual, demiromantic, aromantic and asexual. You'll understand yourself better from this. But here's a concept about those that I mentioned. Demisexual is like you need a deep emo... Fujomochi
Been trying to understand what love is by reading manga --- you name it. But can't really seem to understand it. Anyone who feels the same way?
Could you elaborate? Im very curious.
Love is not a thing, love are a bunch of different things depending on the person.
There's chemistry, there's romance, there's each one's fantasy, some love requires sex, some love is platonic, some love is unhealthy obsession, neurodiverse people can experience love in a different way than a neurotypical. Sometimes the problem between two persons in love is not the love, but their personality and choices. Sometimes two can love each other, but in such different ways that their love is not compatible.
The question isn't "what's love?". The questions would be, "how do I feel affection?" And "how do people around me feel affection?"
same for me tbh, i realised most of my feelings that i thought are romantic are actually just physical appreciation? seeing romance in comic does look cute to me but i don't understand the feelings
WAIT I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE OMG. Im not sure if we're the same but i tried reading anything lgbt to figure out why im so confused, even up till now its still not solved. Tho i find novels to be more effective than webtoons or manga here cos they're hit or miss
like its cute but like if that is romantic i dont exactly wanna experience it first hand
I wrote demisexual, aromantic and asexual.. i forgot to include demiromantic. I've been new to this really.. I'm in my 20's and rarely had crushes or being in a relationship. Realized that I can't seem to grasp love romantically(also forgot to include romantic love coz there's diff kinds of love) but rather, in need of deep emotional bond with someone to feel sexual attraction and maybe fall in love(am like demisexual and demiromantic)
Yeah. I agree. I just forgot to include to grasp love as in romantically.
I feel like i’m the same, i mean i did like somebody (but idk if i can call it love bc i also don’t know abt it very well) and i did share deep bonds with them until now, but I don’t think i can feel sexual attraction. In fact, i don’t think I CAN feel it to anyone especially to those i have very deep bonds with, it’s weird bc ppl are telling me you’d want to touch the person you love (romantically). I also think i won’t ever be able to love someone romantically, because when i was in a relationship, i realized that all i can provide is nothing more than what a good friend could give, there was nothing special or anything i could give that could make me more of a “lover”. Up til now, i am still confused but I just decided to go with the flow, maybe someday i’ll understand (bc even after reading a lot of romance, it’s still fiction).
Yep, try to research about demisexual, demiromantic, aromantic and asexual. You'll understand yourself better from this. But here's a concept about those that I mentioned. Demisexual is like you need a deep emotional bond to someone to feel sexually attracted to them. Demiromantic is like you need a deep emotional bond to someone to feel romantic feelings to them. Aromantic is you don't feel any romantic feelings or desire for romantic relationships. a person who has no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone. Actually, there's a bunch of definitions about all of these.
Also, you can be any of these regardless of gender.
Yeah.. am also researching for me to understand myself better(￣∇￣")
Yesss. Maybe someday.. we'll understand.
Ah.. the last definition is Asexual.