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Am I the only one who was lowkey grossed out with how they were talking about the mc...I kinda stopped sjipping snd just want them all to get therapy. It feels like the male lead thinks the mc exists just for him and isn't his own person which is ick and the other dude....idek I liked him but now he's saying theyvwere never friends idek what's going on with him.
Everyone needs therapy
that's...kind of the point. dohun is deranged and obsessed atp, and it's pretty clear seongmin is the same, both of them are going to hurt yuwon in the end bc they don't care about his wellbeing as a person. that's the message of this story; none of the characters experience love and therefore develop twisted views on it; it's only going to be a catastrophe in the end. it's psychological horror for a reason.
I spend all day on tiktok reading fanfics or reading manhwa. I don't want to give up my love of fiction but I also have other things I want to do and I need to study. How to balance it out?
yeah bro same i can't seem to lock in
I barely study 2 hours a day rn same problem we're facing
A day....bro try a month. 2 hours a day is plenty
Personally, I try to do a sort of reward system. I set myself goals to meet, such as reading a chapter of my textbook, finishing writing a paragraph, and completing a certain number of problems, etc. And after I meet each one, I let myself goof off as a reward for a set amount of time, so like getting to scroll for 10 mins, or getting to read a chapter of a manga or fic. Might not work for everybody, but it helped me a lot.
It’s that feeling of “I don’t know what to do” that keeps you (and all of us) stuck in a cycle of addiction. I tried replacing my yaoi addiction with watching anime, but that didn’t really count as a healthy replacement either. For a while, I stopped thinking about fiction altogether, I was too busy socializing and working on projects.
TL;DR When trying to break a habit, you need to find something equally satisfying to replace it with, something that gives you the same kind of fun or “dopamine” you’re used to.
You can’t just cut it out instantly. Trust me, you have to gradually replace it with something else, then reduce it bit by bit. Eventually, you’ll forget about the old habit because you’ll already have other fun options to turn to instead of just reading fiction or scrolling through TikTok all the time.
But I enjoy it i don't wanna stop i just wanna do it less and focus on stuff I have to do like studying
Ive been trying to get into yuri lately but almost every single manhua/manhwa i read is kinda trash. THe art is either bad, or the plot is trash, or the plot isnt trash but the way its written is rushed.
Honestly the only good gl I've read have been mangas which sucks cause i like reading in color...
This probably is just a me thing probs just my taste but am i the only one who sees the difference in quality in gl manga and gl manhua?
Ive only read like 3 gl manhua/manhwa ive enjoyed.
I love Amy
friendly rivalry (which isnt even a gl manhua but the drama is)
and some other one i forgot the name of but its about an idol group.
Most gl manhua are trash to me idky.
Almost 70 chaps and the misunderstanding still hasn't been cleared up...two grown ahh men btw