Genuine question. When one is sad or deeply hurt do they really feel like kissing or having sex? (Not talking about the webtoon)
Don’t have the answer but I want to know too
I could imagine that it really depends on what has made someone upset and what their love language is. For example the sadness of being alone or like abandoned is vastly different from the sadness of like your mom passing away. And a person that shows love through physical touch is probably more open to sex in comparison to someone who shows love through words. Sex is also usually seen as like the ultimate act of love (when in a relationship) and seeking such comfort when sad could make sense? I have no idea though just a hypothesis.
It depends. I have done it several times as a way to feel close to the person that I consider my shelter and makes me feel protected. Sometimes words don't help but knowing that they are able to accept you and care for you in an intimate manner in a broken state is an ultimate proof of "need help to forget(?), let me help you" in a way. "Let me pamper you because I know you are going through a hard time, Let me take your mind away however I can" because intimacy is seen as the most precious union. But... as I say it depends on the person and the situation you are going through. I always communicate with my partner and knows what works, and if it works in occasions, therapy taught us that may be a way to coupe. And that takes me to say that this dont work on all people. For example it works for me the majority of the time, but not for my partner when life gets hard.
If someone's just felt like the other person "magically appears" like a beacon of hope whenever they're in deep trouble (like Vanessa's just thought) then of course. It's called "realizing you're in love".
Otherwise (if it's not with someone you love and whom you feel you can absolutely rely on) then it's a cheap, counterproductive way of cheering oneself up.
the answer is yes for me but i'm not sure how healthy it is lol
It's one kind of coping mechanism. It's not really deemed as healthy in psychology but yeah it's real
Yep, there are even mental health illnesses like Borderline defined by using sex as coping
It differs from person to person... It's a form of coping mechanism for some people bc it could feel like an escape,... Like drugs is for others, or alcohol or cigarettes
i also always thought why couples in movies or in manhwas kiss or even have sex when they’re sad when i was single but after getting in a relationship i surprisingly find myself feeling consoled by the act of affection and even seeking it later. i dont necessarily think its an issue, it’s just a love language. but having someone to hold you when you’re in your lowest is such a blessing . I like to see it as something way deeper than just a kiss or a sex, more like a sign that they genuinely want/love each other
Sex can be like adrenaline, a temporary release from stress. But like alcohol, once the high wears off, your problems are still waiting for you.
They are so stupid but how do I still finished it in a night???????
Bad plot and bad characters always taking away pretty artworks from me
Mf gave him drugs, is trying to baby-trap him but fucking him when he's sleeping is where he drags the line
i mean, Yumin planned on impregnating him (Taejun) who he thought was a clueless human and running away with the baby once it's born so they're pretty much on the same range, kinda
they both have weird obsessions about baby trapping each other I'm crien their perfect. I think yumin would have a negative reaction though, not cuz he don't like it but bc it damages his pride n stuff...
Yeah, but I was hopping yumin would change his plans (he was supposed to get pregnant so) and would've made a similar comment on him too if he did go through it.
FINALLY!!! THAT'S WHAT I AM SAYING!! PEOPLE ARE SO BLIND TO TAEJUN TO REALISE THAT HE'S TETHERING ON THE RED FLAG/ORANGE FLAG AREA!!! he's literally trying to keep Go Yumin confined with keep getting him pregnant and locking him at home and drugging him but people are still finding it hot or fucking romantic is disgusting. And he's a hypocrite, planning all those evil things but acting like if he is so high above with his morals and saying that he wouldn't do it when he's unconscious. Im not saying he should've done, but if you know that is wrong; it means that YOU ALSO KNOW THE OTHER THINGS YOU'RE TRYING TO DO TO YUMIN IS WRONG. So thats why I think Taejun is fundamentally a bad person
then stop reading the book, I mean if you can harbor such hate, why keep reading???? When I hate a character or plot I just drop it, what's with all this drama? I always always see this type or reader years back from reading here "he's red flag! I hate him! this plot is shit" Then drop it? end of it... complaining about shit you can just walk away from is just so...cheap, then you'll have "free will" as your excuse, for fuck's sake
It's not easy to suddenly drop a drama one has been reading for almost a year. It feels like such a waste of time. But one also gradually lost interest.
Still, there’s people who enjoy reading this, and it’s genuinely tiring to see others hating on every chapter. If you’re reading something you don’t like on purpose, at least keep it low so others can enjoy their reading in peace. Coming here and commenting on every chapter just to say how much you hate it feels like a bigger waste of time to me.
It’s easy tho. Just drop it if you hate the series so much. Don’t waste your time and energy to read things that make your blood boil every time.
preachhh, like it's so mood ruining to scroll down after finishing a chapter, expecting positive reactions or relatable comments, then I just find a bunch of criticism.. even if the author doesn't see it, it doesn't excuse the hate they throw. it's not even 'helpful criticism', it's just straight up hate. people here r so blinded by purity culture that their treating this vanilla manwha as the worst thing on earth. there are thousands and thousands of bls with this genre and worse. （￣へ￣）
r we forgetting that yumin was planning on impregnation taejun too bec he thought he was a regular human? their both a bad person
Im not saying Yumin is innocent, no he's far from it. But just because theyre both bad dosen't mean we can ignore the bigger evil here. I also dont support Yumin's behavior but Taejun is just for more worst than Yumin and I just don't like the fact that people are romanizating his behavior, because that is NOT okay
I'm way too invested in this shit, I just need to see Taejun suffering or something, if Yumin get pregnant I will drop it
There's drug use and baby-trapping going on, how do one even expect positive comment on that?
These people are just so weird they attack every comment that criticize the series even though the series in question is just turning into a red/orange flag bullshit
Are we forgetting this is fiction? Some people may enjoy reading something more “red flag” because not everyone likes to read soft and cute stories 24/7. These people are allowed to like whatever, it literally doesn’t affect anyone. Coming here every time a new chapter drops just to hate on something other people enjoy reading… Isn’t this kind of people weirder? I don’t see how liking some plot makes you weird. Also, what would you expect when people are tired of others ruining their reading every time just for the sake of it? They are not weird for defending themselves or trying to stop the hate. If you don’t like it, go read something else. No one is forcing you to keep reading this and post comments of how much you hate it every time ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
So what? I’ve seen way worse stories and no one complains about them. Not your cup of tea? Go read something else. There’s people who still like this manhwa. It literally doesn’t affect anyone. Let others enjoy whatever they like in peace. No one is forcing you to read this kind of trope ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
In the beginning the premise wasn't a red-flag story, you cant blame people being mad for this story to turning into something that leaves a bad taste in your mouth. And im not saying youre weird for liking it but some people getting weird about defending the disturbing parts of the story, I dont care if you love redflags, I cant care less about your gooning preferences but I hate when people try to normalize and defend toxic relationships. And if you dont like my comment I also dont force you to read or reply it because I will continue to read this story until I see Taejun suffering
Just because you Mrs/Mr Edgelord saw and read something worse than this dosent make this story any less toxic. I'm not banning people or shaming them because they like this manhwa, it's not my place to kink shame or judge their preferences but it also dosent mean that I dont have a right to tell my opinion about this relationship turning into something toxic and dark.
You know that won’t happen… Also, don’t take it personally. If you hate it that much, idk why you care so deeply about it
Of course you can give your opinion and say you don’t like it. Obviously, you don’t have to enjoy this story, but that’s way different from saying that the ones who defend it are weird and straight up hate on the manhwa. That’s not "telling your opinion". I, as many other people, am tired of finishing a chapter and go to the comments to read reviews of it and just finding "This plot is bs, I hate it so much, the characters are trash". As I said before, if it’s not your cup of tea, drop it and read something else. If you want to keep wasting your time on reading something you despise, keep it down for the ones who are enjoying it so far. They are not harming anyone, and don’t deserve to be shamed or discouraged in the comment section. Let people read what they like in peace ♡
I want to believe that at some point when Go Yumin learns that he was getting drugged and being tried to getting baby-trapped he would break up with Taejun even though even if that happened they would get back together but I just wish that Taejun suffers at least a little bit
As I said before, I'm not shaming people for liking this story and the characters but I won't be okay with people who are normalizing red-flag-like behaviors since they're genuinely harmful for people
Can't they not think of good/different stories WITHOUT Rape???????????
The revenge is slow i want Bella to suffer already
The slower it is the sweeter it gets (✷‿✷) I think... Hahahahah
I believe in thisლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Yaoi authors are way too comfortable with their r*pe fantasies
literally wtf