1. There is no actual "virginity" test for women because the hymen is a thin membrane that is perforated to allow menstrual blood to pass through and can thin as the person ages or disappear with vigorous movement
2. If he's not a virgin then there's no expectation for her to be one
3. She can ask him to get an STI test
4. She should go to pre-m...... reply
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