I'm confused with their logic in that argument scene. Can someone explain both of their sides on that scene where they're screaming at each other? No matter what I do, it doesn't sink in.
Both of them are two busy trying to have the upperhand in the relationship rather than see each other as a partner basically. They’re both bad friends who look down on each other and dont want to admit feelings because it requires being vulnerable. Tak is consistently demeaning toward Sanho and treats him like an idiot, which makes Sanho insecure and lash out basically. So when Sanho thought Tak liked him and they would start dating, he was happy because it finally felt like they could be on equal footing because even tho Tak is. Well the way he is, at least he liked Sanho so they could be lovey-dovey (which is what Sanho really wants from a relationship - again, he’s insecure and wants validation from his partner) and maybe Tak will actually start being nice to him. When Tak shows open disgust towards this, of course Sanho gets defensive. He says cruel things to protect his self-image (have I mentioned he’s insecure?) because he doesnt want to feel lesser than Tak. Of course, if Tak didn’t actually have some sort of feelings, he probably could have brushed this off but it’s obvious if you look at how stony his demeanor changes, his feelings are obviously hurt so he doubles down. Tak lacks some self awareness and introspection and probably doesnt realize his feelings. I think this is because he’s the opposite of Sanho. He has an elevated sense of self and thinks liking anyone, especially Sanho who is a little dumb and goofy and has many flaws, is beneath him. Basically they do like each other but are incompatible (this is normal for a story - if they were immediately compatible there will be no plot) and saying hurtful shit to protect themselves. Personally I’m on Sanho’s side because even though he is a little annoying, all he wants is to feel loved and Tak seems to determined to withhold that to maintain his ego which is cruel imo. Sanho did say some mean stuff also but Tak started this years before so it’s really the consequences of his actions long term imo. You might feel differently though. Sanho is certainly no angel, I just have a hard time feeling bad for Tak after him constantly doing things to Sanho without his consent (aside from that I find Tak more relatable to me personality-wise though but damn homie he’s a whole rapist).
Both of them are two busy trying to have the upperhand in the relationship rather than see each other as a partner basically. They’re both bad friends who look down on each other and dont want to admit feelin... Wujin
Both of them are two busy trying to have the upperhand in the relationship rather than see each other as a partner basically. They’re both bad friends who look down on each other and dont want to admit feelin... Wujin
Absolutely amazing - I love how you were able to breakdown their dynamics so easily and beautifully.
Both of them are two busy trying to have the upperhand in the relationship rather than see each other as a partner basically. They’re both bad friends who look down on each other and dont want to admit feelin... Wujin
I'm confused with their logic in that argument scene. Can someone explain both of their sides on that scene where they're screaming at each other? No matter what I do, it doesn't sink in.
Both of them are two busy trying to have the upperhand in the relationship rather than see each other as a partner basically. They’re both bad friends who look down on each other and dont want to admit feelings because it requires being vulnerable. Tak is consistently demeaning toward Sanho and treats him like an idiot, which makes Sanho insecure and lash out basically. So when Sanho thought Tak liked him and they would start dating, he was happy because it finally felt like they could be on equal footing because even tho Tak is. Well the way he is, at least he liked Sanho so they could be lovey-dovey (which is what Sanho really wants from a relationship - again, he’s insecure and wants validation from his partner) and maybe Tak will actually start being nice to him. When Tak shows open disgust towards this, of course Sanho gets defensive. He says cruel things to protect his self-image (have I mentioned he’s insecure?) because he doesnt want to feel lesser than Tak. Of course, if Tak didn’t actually have some sort of feelings, he probably could have brushed this off but it’s obvious if you look at how stony his demeanor changes, his feelings are obviously hurt so he doubles down. Tak lacks some self awareness and introspection and probably doesnt realize his feelings. I think this is because he’s the opposite of Sanho. He has an elevated sense of self and thinks liking anyone, especially Sanho who is a little dumb and goofy and has many flaws, is beneath him. Basically they do like each other but are incompatible (this is normal for a story - if they were immediately compatible there will be no plot) and saying hurtful shit to protect themselves. Personally I’m on Sanho’s side because even though he is a little annoying, all he wants is to feel loved and Tak seems to determined to withhold that to maintain his ego which is cruel imo. Sanho did say some mean stuff also but Tak started this years before so it’s really the consequences of his actions long term imo. You might feel differently though. Sanho is certainly no angel, I just have a hard time feeling bad for Tak after him constantly doing things to Sanho without his consent (aside from that I find Tak more relatable to me personality-wise though but damn homie he’s a whole rapist).
everything you just said is chefs kiss
Absolutely amazing - I love how you were able to breakdown their dynamics so easily and beautifully.
This is perfect