nana's Questions (11)

Lmao I can feel your pain. Literally refresh the page five times per hour just to see if there's any updates.

sometimes, the updates notif doesn't pop up (especially quite recently bc of the server probs) even if you had lots of followed manga that have new updates.

so if you wanna make sure, you can either manually browse through the "Last Updates" directory or send a message directly to the admin.

Thanks for the tips ò○ó

sekaiichi hatsukoi
junjou romantica
dakaretai otoko ichii ni odosarete imasu
kawaii senpai no kaigoroshikata
k sensei series
Aruhi Hyouhenshita Shinyu Ni Kokuhakusa Remashita

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/see_you_agai/?av=3

How so? Is it because it's not a Manga style cover?

no I mean it kind of caught me off guard at first like when it got updated and it appeared in my notifications so I thought they were new manhwa I haven't read

lol they all look the same style. manga/wha/hua all got their covers updated to a poster-like style more similar to webtoons.

No, stop, don't make me look dumb. Now I have to disagree with you but I can't figure out how, what are you gonna do about that?

Ah, got one. You said they all changed the covers, but she was talking about Manwha covers. So... ha

nice comeback. that made me laugh actually, i like you.
ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

anyway, this is just a simple FYI, trying to make things clear (and to help me become less confused when people mix up terms...)
manwha = physically published comics, korean counterpart of manga and manhua.
webtoon = korean/chinese webcomics
that is the reason for my first comment, why i say they look the same. people had the habit of calling webtoons manwha irregardless if it's korean or chinese.

( ಠ ʖ ಠ) Lmao

Loads of people think like that. They can't accept the idea of homosexuality, which is, considering a lot people parents are sort of close-minded towards this particular topic, totally understandable. Obviously people have to change later on if they want to live in this society where, fortunately, gay people can live happily, but don't be surprised about the teacher's behaviour.

I could care less about her opinion but saying it in front of her student is a little too much? What if one of her student is still in the closet? I can't help but feeling shocked and disappointed at the same time. And about the homophobic parents is so true. I hate dealing with my parents when it comes to this topic.

I wouldn't care about her opinion but unfortunately she's a teacher and tell that to her students like if her word were law (because sometimes us as students trust our teachers bc of wise and all) its totally wrong. Today it's her opinion but then could be abuse, insults and even murderer towards lgbt people.

It's so sad we still live in a intolerant world.

Same, some of the people in my family are so homophobic
I jest can't with them some times.

I actually just DRASTICALLY become blind and deaf when someone starts shitting on homosexuality.

I know how you feel. My dad is homophobic, but fortunately he is capable of changing. I do think people are capable of changing in general, because they have to, due to society's drastic change. However, it might be too fast for some people. 10 or 20 years ago it was absolutely disgusting and not acceptable, while today, fortunately people try to accept same sex marriage. Just be patient and try to slowly change your parents' mindset. I know I don't know your parents or you, but try. Its hard, I had to go through a lot of shit until I made my mom change her mind, and I still have to "fight" with my dad over this. But! They can change. If your teacher doesn't change her attitude towards homosexuality, I can see her being jobless in a few week or month.

lol just like me when i start reading it after ch 2 i stooped read but about week ago i start reading it worth believe me

No. Maybe.

The beginning is a little weird, but the story gets really sweet and cute as it develops. I really enjoy it :)

I TOTAAAAALLLY recommend it!!!!

Omigoshhh you really should!! You’ll miss a lot of hotness and real yaoi hot bod reference otherwise xD

Shove a dildo, that'll be easier than a vacuum cleaner (〜￣△￣)〜

Gentleman VS Bobcat
Guano Xiang

http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/106534/

Tragic? My first love, I thought he was really my first love but I guess wrong. The things he did to me was not meant to be done to anyone. I thought what we had was special and I thought we might of last longer than three years, I got pregnant 4 months into our relationship but before that 2 months into our relationship he hit me, he didn't just stop at one punch, I got punch, kick and bite for two hours long. He came home high on Coke and been drinking. I didn't know what I did. During the time I was pregnant he cheated on me and wasn't there for me. But during those three years I thought he would have change, because he said "I'm sorry I won't happen again." "I didn't mean too" all that shit. Remember I have my child still with me during these times he did not only physical abuse me , but I went though emotional, verbal and financially abuse by him. And he says he love me? Why would he do that? I left I finally left when he push his own kid away from him. I woke up from all that and was like what am I doing? Look what I'm putting my child though. He will grown up thinking that's alright. Since than I'm trying my best to move on from that. I thought what we have was love. I didn't know anything. But I'm glad I met him though because I have my son and I'm grateful for him for that. I can forgive him but I can't forget what he did. So now I hope he can treat his gf he has right. By the way I have fully custody and he only has supervise visit. We might when we were 18 I left when I was 22. I'm 23 now I have proof of everything he did , I have proof what he says to me. I call the cops once , so that's on his record. So that's my story what I thought was my first love.

oh my god when I asked that question I thought nobody will even answer it or maybe there will be people who reply with funny or awkward story. This is horrible abusive relationship is the worst. Why didn't you end things with him right when he started hitting you? It's fortunate that you're still healthy and still going strong. I hope this doesn't prevent you from falling in love again.

My first love is my cousin. At that time he loved me too. We kissed too, my very first kiss. You know what, i have a bad peraonality and naughty. So he hates me for being like that. He hates me so much, until now. But i am me, so if he couldnt take it at that time, he will never cant for the rest of his life. So... Bye bye first love... Oh sometimes i dream about him, but that's just a normal brain reaction to recall some "long forgotten" experiences... I didnt have any regret at all actually..

Never been in love so following. I want to know too ┗( T﹏T )┛

I was grandma-zoned by the bitch

ive never truly "loved" someone. just temporary crushes. i honestly dont know what "love" is. the only love ive known until now is family love.

I dunno why, but i always fall in love with good-for-nothing boys... Yep... I know exactly he will hurt me in the end.. Maybe i am a masochist.. (?)

masochist :v I don't think so. My mom is rather worried about me cause I've no experience in love so I may end up choosing the wrong person. I think you are wise enough to know who is right for you unlike me :)

Ahahahaha, Well I'm glad you asked! (And you'll probably be sorry)
I'm technically still in it. About two years now.

Realised I had a massive crush on one of my best friends when he started having to miss school due to depression. I was like 'oooo this is exciting' and everyone was like 'you've literally just figured out you have a crush now...?!'

So I like research and started to research best ways to confess and how to tell if someone likes you, I'm ashamed of myself too.
Decided I was gonna confess. Not because I'm a particularly confident person, but rather because I'm a very logical person. And comparing percentages, there was a far higher chance this relationship would get somewhere if I confessed then if I didn't! Also I'm rather impatient ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Good thing I did though, obviously, since he'd liked me for a few years now and would have never confessed on his own. So score for logic!

Buuuuuuut, then I realised that despite being physically and legally mature enough to settle down and create a family, I was in no way mentally mature enough for a simple high school romance. (HAVE ROMANCE STORIES TAUGHT YOU NOTHING CHILD?! THESE THINGS ARE NEVER SIMPLE. CHANCES ARE HE'S SECRETLY A PRINCE AND YOU ARE NOT WORTHY!!)

But as it turns out, dating someone means you have a responsibility to that person, yeah, I was surprised too. They need support. And feeding. And walkies. Like pets. It was scary.
And I was dating someone who was stuck in the middle of severe depression and self-harm, who still can't sleep at night due to nightmares. And as a result of this, was very very clingy and insecure very very quickly.

Lets just say it was far too much responsibility and pressure for little old me and I ended up feeling very emotionally drained, depressed, stressed, whatever for the majority of the year.
I'm a private person. I have Aspergers. Social interaction exhausts me. I want to go home at the end of the day and stay home, not hang out with people. But in a relationship you are seem to be expected to want to spend every moment with that person. Honey, that's just not me.
But I was feeling crushed by sudden shared responsibility of that person's problems and by what everyone expected me to act like.

I couldn't talk to anyone about it, or ask for advice since how did I know anyone would understand, perhaps it was just me being weird.
(HOW DO RELATIONSHIPS ACTUALLY WORK?! I DON'T KNOW! DO YOU KNOW?!)
And besides, anything I said would probably get back to him, we were in the same circle of friends after all.

So yeah. You could say we had a few teething problems. I decided to stick with it because I still loved him, we were still good friends, and I have a lot of faith the power of communication and in things working out.

I would of said it was one of the hardest years in my life, but errrr just wait for next year younger self. Just wait...

WHICH IS A SHORT WAIT BECAUSE I'M GOING TO GO INTO IT RIGHT NOW! You're welcome ;)

I moved onto college with my boyfriend, my best friend. Our group was a bit diminished because a lot of people had gone to different colleges, the best friend's boyfriend had left as well.
This is important because she spent the majority of the first term being very withdrawn, hard to talk to, and at times, snappy. So me and boyfriend are like 'hey, instead of joining her in awkward silence when she refuses to talk to us, lets do that thing where we enjoy our common interest together!'. And so we did.

She started ignoring me when I came into rooms, like properly stopping mid sentencing and turning her back.
I was a bit lost, I hadn't really realised I'd done something wrong. Lets be honest, I hadn't really.

We got involved in a cycle of me going 'hey I really value you as a friend, can we please talk about this?' and her going 'I'm so sorry, I feel so bad, I'll try harder', before going back to ignoring me after a couple of days at most. This continued for months and my self confidence was seriously shaken.
I got social anxiety and moderate depression. I couldn't even look people in the eyes. I thought, if my best friend, my longest friend here, thinks I'm such an awful person to be around but still acted like my friend for so long... Who else here has just been smiling to my face?

My boyfriend was my only friend for that whole time. The only one who sat with me. After a year of feeling crushed by his need of support, I now needed his. A little bit ironic I guess.
And he gave it without complaint, even though it must have been hard as she and him were still really close friends.

I'm still a little unclear on what her reasons were but the main idea of it was me and my boyfriend had been making her feel left out. She blamed my boyfriend for being too clingy and 'stealing' me away (to be fair he was too clingy. But then she was still getting on fine with him). And me for not taking notice. (I did. I just thought I'd fixed it since she had come back to me about it. And I was a bit more focused on all of that stuff above.)
... Also because I was stealing away her friends...? I'm not really sure about this one like, have you SEEN me in conversation. It's not good, I'm not gonna be making, let alone stealing, friends anytime soon...

ANYWAY!
I guess you could say that due to getting a boyfriend I lost my closest friend and go through absolute shit. But losing my closest friend made me get much closer to my boyfriend than I perhaps would have done.
So, I mean, it depends on which one you would value more, this whole experience has certainly proved to me who's more valuable.

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If you managed to read all that congratulations to you. Have ten whole cookies. I'm the queen of being overly long-winded.

My first love isn't overly happy or sad or anything. It's just me. Fumbling. Like usual. But its something I wished someone could of told me beforehand.

Relationships aren't easy.
It's very easy to get carried away with that feeling. I don't think I was ready. And he was perhaps... all too ready...
Don't underestimate that relationships are give and take. You need to be able to support that person and give up time for them, and they should do the same for you. But you should also be able to stand on your own.

And if they feel like a burden as it was for me then you seriously need to step back, think it over and talk it through with them. You need to consider your own health and happiness as well as theirs.


Both these years have shown me I have a lot more maturing to do! And I'll probably do so through fire. Life is fun... (￣∇￣")

Hope you enjoyed and sorry I'm a scatterbrain.

Ahhhh I first start writing this when there were no replies and now look! And I've written way more than anyone else.
I'm so so sorry, I'm not at narcissist I swear, I just get carried away ╥﹏╥

I just wanted to make the point I made at the end, which isn't an amazing point but yeah...

I am honestly really lucky compared to a lot of people, love can be absolute unreasonable shit and some of you guys are amazing for getting through that and staying strong.
Pri, don't worry about have no experience, everyone starts from somewhere and that'll just come.

Thank you :) ......but.....I want to start as soon as possible though ┗( T﹏T )┛ I just can't keep reading shoujo manga forever（￣へ￣）

Unfriend her! Lol jk, I guess you should avoid that topic.

she knew abt my interest for awhile now i didn't suddenly bring it up. she even ship 2 guys in our class i don't get why her reaction was so strange

Hmm i think you should just act normally.. Our perceptions are different from others. So dont take it too much to heart. All my friends know that i am fujoushi. And sometimes i will do naughty things too. My friends all decent students from a good family too. One of them said i am digusting, some never care too much about my preferences. I just act normally, i have my own thought. As long as you know what is right or wrong, and do everything wisely, you cant be wrong. That was my mom said in the past...

Yeahhh. Some people cannot accept these things. My sister for example cant stand yaoi. Luckily my best friend is okay with BL but she only read shounen ai.

Most probably because of the fantasy vs reality. I’m pretty sure some of the reader here who read yaoi but can’t accept gay in rl. They can fantasize about two guys together for fun but when it become true, they’re repulsed.

I, for one, are very strong on where I stand. If I support gay or lgbt community then that’s my business. In your case, if I were you, I would’ve told her, reasoning with her, why I think gay shouldn’t be look down with disgust. I could write an essay of this matter as I’m very good in arguing or debating about this. I strongly believe people can live their life loving who they want. Life is so short why hate? When they die, they die. And what they did while they lived will disappear with time. It’s stupid to live and be afraid of loving who you want. Regardless of gender etc.

However, if even after you reason with her why she should respect gay people and she still stubborn in her dislike towards them, then leave her be. We can’t force someone to accept certain things. She live her life exhausting herself hating the inevitable and you live your life understanding that life is more than those narrow minded people.

Omg... to say that about the possibility of having a gay child is just horrid and sad for this generation. In my case, I'd just act normally because a friend, regardless of how narrow-minded they are, is a friend and as time goes on you could possible meet people who can accept your interests and not judge. That is ONLY if she doesn't treat you worse/differently, if it escalates and she says crap about you then cut her off, no point in keeping toxic people around. Advice from someone who grew up in a very stereotypical Asian household with parents with the mindset from the 1960's such as hitting for discipline and racism. Good Luck!

i don't really care what people think about my interest either but something about her reaction just pierced my heart maybe because she's a bestfriend but thanks i'll try to forget about it

yeah i know not every girls are fujoshi but this is not the first time i talk about it. Usually she just listen to me and laugh it off. if she's uncomfortable she should tell me since day 1 lol i feel kinda bad she has to listen to those erotic stuff

I've never actually explained it to her in details. I did tell her not to judge people and that they can't help liking the same gender because they were born this way. I strongly support the lgbt+ community and I'm very open about it. I'm sure all of my friends know but no matter how hard I try to make them understand, they still seem uncomfortable and try to change the topic. They would ask me shit like "But how do gays do it? Does it feel good though" and then one of them would shout "Stop it that's gross" and I'd secretly feel hurt by it. If talking about sex generally triggers them then I don't mind but seems like all of my friends are homophobic.

Asking that kind of question is considered normal in my country. It's like before you judge somebody and make fun of something, what if you have to live with that kind of situation as well? It's actually a religious thing. There are people who believe if you hate something so much, Karma will get you and shove it in your face, making you suffer from it. I also grew up in a stereotypical Asian household. My parents esp my mom's mindset is super ancient. Anyway I'm going off topic but she's a bestfriend so I won't cut her out of my life because of this one issue. I'm sure she won't talk shit about me either consider all type of crap she has to put up with hanging with me. She's probably already forgotten about it by now. Thanks you, I just really wanna get it out of my chest.

Thats not cool . I think u should just talk with other things but really i wouldnt spend too much time with someone who looks disgusted If i talk about my own interests. Im sure u can find someone u can talk with ! My best friend doesnt read yaoi etc stuff but she always listen me:'D and i dont feel weird about talking manga or stuff so u should talk with people like us here cuz its best to talk when u feel comfortable (sorry grammar mistakes im not fluent in english XD)

My fellow fujoshi :') you guys are the best. I sent her yaoi sometimes but she never told me anything so I thought she liked it. I'll probably continue to tease her because it's kinda cute.

I had similar experience with my coworker. I always thought that she was great open minded person but one day we talked about our favourite books and comics and I mentioned Junjou Romantica and she freaked out. She said that whatever gay is disgusting, immoral and unnatural. Since than I see her in different light. We are friends, we work together, but we don't talk about some topics. （￣へ￣）

Omg , your friend sounds like a homophobic piece of shit . Like it's 2017 , how are people still homophobic . I hope they don't treat being gay like a disease , cause I get that reaction a lot ... Thankfully my bff is also bi and a huge yaoi fan . But don't worry , you will find more accepting people in the future Hun , just takes a bit time to get there (￣∇￣")

Well, if things don't work out with his girlfriend, wait a while and then say that you're interested. Just don't be surprised if he ends up getting a little angry that you changed your mind after rejecting him twice. Though I wouldn't make a move while he's currently dating someone. Maybe try and be friends with him first if you aren't already, talk about anime and stuff, and see if you start feeling anything else.

wow this sounds like a manga

...good luck

yeah fuck you too that has nothing to do with loyalty and you even called his girlfriend a bitch?? wtf man that's just jealousy if i were him i think i would've ignored you for the whole school year and only now do you regret it and think your relationship would work???

woah calm down I'm calling his girlfriend a bitch for a reason. its not really jealousy. i don't understand why he date her even though the whole school know what she's like. u know the two face type, nobody likes her (maybe boys do) she's always alone. I'm a bad person i know but i don't hide it. also its not like i want to break them up or anything i do know i don't stand a chance haha i just wish he could've ended up with someone better (and not my enemy lol)

Sounds like possessiveness. You just want someone to talk to and you're annoyed that that person is with someone else now. Seems like it wouldn't matter if it's exactly that person or not, as long as it's someone with the same interest as you.

thanks for the advice. i honestly don't know why I wrote this. i won't have the courage to confess to him after rejecting him not once but twice. isn't that a bit weird? I've been thinking about this a lot so maybe i just need someone to talk to.

It's cool to date someone with the same interest don't you think? anyway that's not the point. We didn't know each other that well a year ago. He literally just transferred to my school so when he confessed of course i can't immediately have feelings for him. I rejected him nicely tho and said let's be friend for now. what i meant was let's get to know each other more but he went and dated 2 other girls right after i rejected (one of them is my friend too TT) so i can't help but feel uneasy.

luck hates me

I really wanted to ask why is she a bitch because the school says it or you do know she is a bitch ?

Oh wow. He confessed to you right after transferring? Then he dated TWO girls after you rejected him? Well... he's just a fuckboi I guess? Not sure if that's worth wasting feelings over

Aw come one... Just forget about him and cheer for him honestly... Wether it will work or not between them, that s not your business anymore. You choosed to rejected him, so be a good girl, and let him go already. Thats just your ego speaking rn..! I dun hate you, but i think you should grown up a little. No hard feeling

To me sounds if you where scared to like him so you went the friend root but if you know that the girl is bad for him say that to him he won't believe you but when he breakup with her be there but never ever say told you so to him. Still be the friend later be the girlfriend. I don't think you will hurt him when you are with him because you are mad for him about the bad girlfriend. So good luck

i really don't want to expose her but i'll tell you a few things. She's straight up fake and disrespectful. I'm her senior. She uses honorifics in front of me but drop it behind my back. She seduce every guys she see. Even my guys friend are creeped out by her. She speaks in an overly high pitched voice when everyone knows its not what she normally sounds like. She's a show off. blah blah i could go on and on about her attitude all day.

i really wish he's not a fuckboy. I always tell myself maybe i hurt his feelings so he's just trying to forget about me. And if he really is a fuckboy then our relationship is going to be even more fun. I can teach him a few lessons. Fuckboys don't mess with me. umm I'm going off topic again sorry xx

How can I forget about about him when I see him 5 hours a day and 6 days a week? When I go to the canteen, I see him with the girl. When I walk back to class, I see him with the girl. When I come outside to get some fresh air, I see him with the girl. When I go to the bathroom, they were speaking right next to the door. I swear I'll go mad. But you're funny thanks for making laugh I guess.

You maybe right. I was scares to hurt him I guess. I did mention I'm a pretty bad person so I might give him a hard time. If fall for him later on, then I won't betray him but who knows I don't trust people easily. He confessed to me when I had no idea who he is. Thank you for the advice TT

The enemy is though, huh.. i'll give you my secret weapon then. Just pray ..! PRAY.. Fufu~ i experienced a veeery hurt broken heart back then. I thought at that time i couldnt bear anymore, and i just prayed to God that i didnt want to feel that pain anymore. Miracle happened you know. You dont need to be religious or to be a saint. Just a little pray will do. You must be thinking it is confusing for the fact that i pray. But yep.. I prayed that time. And my broken heart healed in 1 week

I get over broken heart quickly thanks to a scar from my first love. I'm not heart broken because of him. I do believe praying helps but there's nothing to pray for to begin with. I might feel better if he dated somebody else that is not my enemy

His gf rn is your enemy..? Damn.. you hate the girl so much, huh.. Now i must tell you this, is she really worth it..? For you to hate her..? Aw come on, she is juat a nobody, you are more than her.. Just imagine she is a kind of a fly, or mosquito.. She even doesnt worth to be hate for. You know, he confessed to you 2 times ..! 2 times. And the girl merely accpted him after you rejected him.. So.. Still think the girl in the same league as you..?

Nah, you'd be surprised. I mean, there are people who are now happily married after having originally rejected their SO-to-be multiple times.