I made a post saying Rpf involving minors or fics where an actor of a character is a minor os kind of wrong, and the RPF at least should be illegal. ALL the comments were bashing my opinion and being derogatory towards me and what I was saying. One person said making it illegal would help nothing, and I asked them what if they thought the same on AI porn. This person was quite vocal on everything against my opinion, but when I asked them to explain their thoughts on AI porn in comparison to RPF and called them out on being mean to another redditor about the redditor’s opinion who simply said they didn’t like some of the takes in the comments bx this user was making fun of the redditor for being mad about the comment’s opinions and I explained that everyone here is sharing an opinion, including me but they were all being mean towards me so obviously none of these people are chill about someone having different opinions and they’re being a hypocrite, they suddenly have NOTHING to say and just respond with “no” and “ok” ._.
those people put pleasure over morals there's no genuine reasoning with them or they suddenly become philosophical for justifying real people non con fics with undraged children . its your opinion (i agree with) Its not like its in the works to get specifically that abnned anyways so idk where all the panic stems from in my opinion
Bro I've been saying rpf is disgusting not even with minors but adults too cuz wdym you are reading a fanfic about wanting to fuck a celebrity or idol that's genuinely disgusting cuz if it was you, you would feel assaulted and shit but no it's different cuz it isn't you and they act as if you said smt wrong when clearly it's not illegal to say what's on my mind and they start getting rude and aggressive,if you don't agree leave it's that easy. I don't think there are any excuses to why you would think about a human being in that way when they don't even know you exist…..
they use fanfic as a get off for whatever kink or fetish they have, and let's be honest, it's the best solution, they just consumme bs weekly that openly is bs and that dont try to romanticize problematic situations. but some readers just DONT want to assume it and they will beat the shit out of you online for pointing evidently problematic and unhealthy behaviors. there's no use trying to argue with them, they just cant swallow the fact that they are pedophiles and that it's not a really good thing to be... anyway i still think using fanfiction is the best solution for people with problemes like that
I’m reading the Sissy novel in the 188 series, a BL, this will have spoilers btw so beware.
The ML, Shao Qun, this fucking hypocritical bitch. He had controlled, manipulated, abused, and cheated on the MC Chengxiu their whole relationship. Then the whole arc if chasing and groveling blah blah. Now in the side stories, bro has the gall to say he’s changed and loves Chengxiu and everything. But this dude still goes out and flirts with men, lets them touch him, and get this. He says in the novel when at a bar with a guy flirting, he wants to sleep with him but can’t bear Chengxiu to run away. But he says just a kiss is fine, right? Well one of Chengxiu’s friends takes a picture of the man going to kiss Shao Qun. And only when Shal Qun notices the flash does he stop the kiss.
He gets furious, worried about Chengxiu finding out but ultimately forgets that nighr from a hangover. Chengxiu (mc) his friend sends the photo and he feels disappointed but expected Shao Qun to cheat because he has before. Shao Qun worries he found out, but his whole defense is he didn’t ACTUALLY kiss the dude (even though he was going to) He gets mad that Chengxiu found oit but doesn’f seem to care that Shao Qun could’ve kissed that guy or cheated (like genuinely wtf Shao Qun. You want him mad that you kissed someone, so you KNOW it’z wrong and upsetting to your partner but are willing to do it anyway?) and he himself also gets MAD jealous at one of Chengxiu’s friends/kind of an ex, a man who still likes Chengxiu, and would flip and has flipped out if that man is even near Chengxiu let alone touching and a freakinf KISS so it’s hypocrisy at its finest. I can makeout and flirt with others but you can’t
I read some 188 novels (sissy, in love with an idiot, professional body double, and beloved enemy) mainly to satisfy my curiosity since I kept seeing them pop up as recs for people wanting atypical character traits/dynamics, which interested me. Apart from that, I knew it would be an uphill climb for me to like them because I generally don’t care to read about toxic and/or abusive relationships unless they’re done a certain way (I need substance!). But I still wanted to check them out and maybe see why they appeal to others. And to an extent, I see it. They’re good at provoking an emotional response, and being engaging/keeping interest in a can’t-look-away-from-this-trainwreck kind of way. The sexual tension in “in love with an idiot” and “beloved enemy” could get pretty good. They’re painfully realistic… to a point. But I felt dissatisfied by the crematorium aspect of the stories and by how shallow they ultimately felt in the end (apart from sissy kinda, maybe?). Perhaps, ideally, these would have been BEs or more solidly “merry bad ends”. The HEs just felt so lightly (or resignedly) given and the conflicts glossed over? Given all the effort put into putting the MCs in the (figurative) trenches, the MLs got off so, so lightly in comparison. Maybe I’m too vindictive, but I need more than just emotional and self-inflicted physical turmoil for the reconciliation to feel okay. Perhaps it was intentional but it felt like a glaring omission that the MLs had a clear tendency towards treating the MCs as objects for their own self-satisfaction (not to mention the paranoid possessiveness)… and never clearly addressing that tendency in the reconciliation. Like, I don’t need the ML to turn towards the audience and say “Geez, I guess I should respect you as a person after all!” to the MC but it would have been great to know that theory of mind was in play for the MLs.
The most compelling parts of the stories dealt with how social/familial pressures influenced their bad behavior and choices in general, but that theme felt rather underexplored and maybe would have made the MLs especially feel more fleshed out to me. I think I’m really put out by the not-really-redemptions because I read a manga that had a more thorough realization-change for the ML where he snapped out of disregarding the MC’s boundaries/personhood after *really* crossing a line, recognized how he’d wronged the MC, and extensively made amends - all way before considering/pursuing a romantic relationship.
tl;dr: the 188 novels I’ve read so far are too much and not enough for me when it comes to toxic/abusive relationships with HEs.
I just realized my post cut like half of what I wrote off and won’t let me edit it back in here’s the full thing
He gets furious, worried about Chengxiu finding out but ultimately forgets that nighr from a hangover. Chengxiu (mc) his friend sends the photo and he feels disappointed but expected Shao Qun to cheat because he has before. Shao Qun worries he found out, but his whole defense is he didn’t ACTUALLY kiss the dude (even though he was going to) He gets mad that Chengxiu found oit but doesn’f seem to care that Shao Qun could’ve kissed that guy or cheated (like genuinely wtf Shao Qun. You want him mad that you kissed someone, so you KNOW it’z wrong and upsetting to your partner but are willing to do it anyway?) and he himself also gets MAD jealous at one of Chengxiu’s friends/kind of an ex, a man who still likes Chengxiu, and would flip and has flipped out if that man is even near Chengxiu let alone touching and a freakinf KISS so it’s hypocrisy at its finest. I can makeout and flirt with others but you can’t
Would the ML get mad if MC sleeps with other men now? Or would he still be into it? Imo MC should find someone to have some fun with just to see….(as payback)
Also editing, I read that chapter in the 30’s where Ml “confesses” and he never did really answer any of the Mc’s questions directly. About sleeping with his ex, if he just wanted to test MC, if he really liked seeing him sleep around. And only now after all this he says he won’t make him do anything he doesn’t like…are you fr ._. And bro talks about how Mc saying I love you isn’t enough for him and he has to prove himself still, bro MC HAS BEEN PROVING HIMSELF SINCE DAY ONE YOU MOTHERFUCKERRR. I also haven’t read the whole story, just the beginning like 10ish chapters and then the confession episode and latest chapters. So there’s probably more shit the Ml has done to MC than I’m not even mentioning here. Bro, I hate the ML. And the ex. And honestly the friend too. MC needs to find someone else istg