Now THIS is what sex should look like in BL: two people enjoying themselves, with mutual consent, pleasure, and desire. Sex is supposed to be something both parties want and enjoy, not an experience where one person is clearly suffering while the other carries on regardless.
The dialogue should be more like, “Yes, right there!” “Give me more!” “Harder!” “Don't stop!” and “Yes, just like that!” — not “Stop! Stop! You're hurting me! Please stop!” while the other person ignores their pleas.
I'm honestly tired of BL authors constantly feeding us non-consensual sex scenes and trying to pass them off as romance or intimacy. Is it really that difficult to write a steamy, passionate scene where BOTH characters actually want what's happening? Where both are enjoying themselves, communicating their desires, and willingly participating?
Consent does not make a sex scene less hot. If anything, mutual desire and genuine enthusiasm can make it so much better. Not every intimate scene needs to involve force, fear, pain, or one character being violated for the sake of drama.
PLEASE, BL AUTHORS, TAKE NOTES! Give us passion, chemistry, mutual pleasure, and consensual intimacy. We want to see both characters enjoying themselves, not one begging for it to stop while the other refuses to listen.
And honestly, Brothers Without a Tomorrow deserves a mention here. To other BL authors, please learn something from their work! THIS is the kind of thing I'm talking about. Give us mutual desire, chemistry, communication, and pleasure instead of constantly romanticizing non-consensual sex. Not every intimate scene needs to involve force, suffering, and someone begging for it to stop.
You can write passionate, steamy, intense scenes without turning them into assault. You don't always have to make one character suffer for the scene to be exciting. Let both characters express what they want, enjoy the moment, and actually have a good time together!
LET BOTH CHARACTERS ENJOY THEMSELVES FOR ONCE! Is that really too much to ask?
Because at this point, can we PLEASE have more BL sex scenes where both characters want it, both enjoy it, and neither has to beg the other to stop?
Honestly, this manhwa could have gone so well if, after rescuing Yujin, Aaron had simply tended to his wounds. Even if he wanted to act like an asshole or remain angry because Yujin ran away from him, he could have at least taken care of his injuries and talked things out with him. I'm pretty sure a lot of readers wouldn't have minded that. But no, the author had to take things in this direction, and now it's gotten to the point where a lot of us might end up dropping this manhwa.
And the thing that pisses me off the most is that Yujin had literally just escaped being raped by a gang of men, and he was beaten up in the process. He had barely escaped such a traumatic experience, and Aaron, the very man who rescued him, was the one person I thought would at least show him some consideration, even if he was still angry with him. I thought he would tend to Yujin's wounds, check on his physical and emotional state, and perhaps confront him about running away when he was in a better condition.
BUT NO! Instead, Aaron goes ahead and rapes him himself. LIKE, ARE YOU ACTUALLY KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW?
Yujin had just escaped being raped, only to be raped by the very person who saved him. Do you understand how messed up that is? The poor guy had already been beaten and was dealing with the aftermath of what those men almost did to him, and instead of giving him a moment to recover, Aaron decided to make things even worse. What exactly was the author thinking? How does that make sense?
Even if Aaron was angry, hurt, or felt betrayed because Yujin ran away from him, there were so many other ways to explore those emotions. He could have been cold towards him, argued with him, confronted him, or refused to forgive him immediately. There was so much potential for angst, conflict, and character development without resorting to sexual violence.
And honestly, this is what frustrates me about some BL authors. Why are rape scenes so frequently used as a shortcut for drama? Why do some of you seem to think that forcing two characters into a sexual situation automatically makes their relationship more intense or interesting? There's a difference between writing a dark, morally complicated character and using rape as a plot device in a romance.
At this point, I'm genuinely starting to wonder whether some of these authors have a fetish for rape, because WHY DOES IT KEEP HAPPENING? You can write toxic relationships, possessiveness, jealousy, anger, betrayal, and complicated romance without constantly resorting to sexual assault.
PLEASE, SOMEBODY GIVE ME THIS AUTHOR'S INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT BECAUSE I NEED TO DRILL SOME SENSE INTO THEM! I just want to ask them WHY. WHY WOULD YOU WRITE IT LIKE THIS WHEN THERE WAS SO MUCH POTENTIAL FOR A BETTER STORY?
I'm genuinely so disappointed because this could have been handled so differently. I'm here for BL, angst, complicated relationships, and morally grey characters, but can we PLEASE stop using rape as a substitute for actual storytelling?
THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HAND.
Coming from a black person
When I read the first chapter I genuinely didn't find anything wrong I swear. I just thought it would be a normal bl.
Buh when it got canceled and people were sharing their thoughts on it I then understood what the story was all about.
And no I wasn't being ignorant I just didn't fully understood the context.
Also in Mangago here people comments are saying she did the right thing Buh on octopus Manga they're saying otherwise
One even said why rape is normalized in bl Buh the mention of slavery is not allowed.
I honestly thought this story was all about cowboy and stuff
And when I read it as slave and master
I also thought it would be something related to BDSM so yeah.










Pls.is there a novel