Rottenfujoshija's Topics (91)

Why is this Suae’s fault? She’s not leading either of them all. She has already communicated to Eunhyuk and told him to not interfere with her relationships, which he did. Even though he was clearly jealous when he saw Dohwa and Suae kiss, he did as told and respected her wishes. At this point, it’s Dohwa who is unilaterally pursuing her even though she has already rejected him. Not only that but he is aware that she does not feel the same way. He is a grown man who knows the situation that he is in. He does not want to be saved. Also, they are both grown men. They are not victims of Suae. So why is this situation her fault???

yh well she needs to makes up her mind

Hahaha her mind is already made that isn't the issue here. The issue in eunhuk where has he been? Why did he leave her? She had no closure shes basically been in a one sided relationship with him for 10 years without knowing where he was. Dowha is only in the picture for and dragging to give the dowha shippers hope and some screen time.

Clearly Su Ae has not made up her mind because why else would she kiss eunhyuk when her car broke down? She keeps thinking about him and had the audacity to do so when dohwa kissed her which reminded her of her n eunhyuk at the beach all those years ago. She is very much leading him on and she needs to be clear about her feelings. She not over E and idek what she feels for D.

Yes, Suae still has feeling for Eunhyuk, but no, she is not leading Eunhyuk on. How is she leading him on when she literally told him hey, don’t interfere with my relationships anymore? That’s a clear boundary. And he’s not crossing it. Not only that, but leading someone on means making someone believe you have romantic feelings for them when you don’t. Having unresolved feelings and choosing to not act on them is not the same as leading someone on. Yes, she kissed him… but a conflicted person making one impulsive decision isn’t the same as someone intentionally misleading another person over time. And after that she hasn’t encouraged Eunhyuk, flirted with him, or given him false hope. In fact, she’s done the opposite by limiting contact with him. Also, It’s also very clear that Suae does not have romantic feelings for Dohwa. What she feels toward him is guilt and pity for not being able to return his feelings. Her discomfort around him after the kiss is repeatedly emphasized through her body language/internal monologue/the imagery surrounding the kiss. And as you said, she was thinking of Eunhyuk during it.

her mind clearly hasn't been made up if she kisses eunhyuk then goes off and gets into a relationship with dohwa but yh im team sooae should end up with no one

I dont think she will get into a relationship with dowha?!?! Did u not read the latest update properly. Look at her expression when he asked her to consider him once she finalised her feelings for eunhuk... she even said her heart breaks for dowha coz she already knows she won't fall for him ...she still loves eunhuk. I dont understand why it is the girl who gets the abuse in these situations when she clearly several times says no. The 2ML always pushes and says things like 'I'll wait' or 'i dont mind if you still love him' when she invetiably goes back to the ML she is the one that's blamed... make it make sense.

I meant she was leading Dohwa on. She, as you said, doesn't feel anything romantic for him yet kissed him anyway/didn't pull away when D kissed her, and I just feel she needs to be crystal clear about her feelings with Dohwa. It's obvious to her, Dohwa's head over heels for him but she clearly doesn't see him like that so I would say this lack of communication is very much her leading him on.

If this ever gets a k drama I know exactly how that kiss will go.... he will kiss her and she will stand there with no lip movement at all. I wouldn't say she kissed him more lile she didnt stand away like you said and thats probably because she doesnt want to lose his friendship. I dont think its a lack of communication she has already told him.

True but actions speak louder than words. Either way such a frustrating plot, only reading to see how this shitshow ends.

I think its also bcs of the medicinr hes taking TOT

girl, my guy is drugged- he high af... he himself finds his actions odd ╥﹏╥

Bro be fr.. ofc he’s shaken up esp knowing that his childhood friend was somehow involved w his longtime trauma and so hung up on why he was there. That broke so many levels of trust red hair had in him PLUS it was true that jiheon was literally drugging wooju none of this is wooju’s fault. Yes he’s been gullible but can’t blame him for having major trust issues in his childhood friend after being manipulated and toyed by him. He’s constantly wary now and was DRUGGED..and is still being *unknowingly* abused by prof as well now too.

Even if you lose trust in someone super close to you, that still doesn't explain running to and depending on a complete stranger. He needs to go home to his parents if he's so scared. The uke is a danger to himself with that peasized brain even before this whole drug thing. He was all up under the professor, even before he doubted his friends trust. His parents need to lock him up in a tower, he's not ready to be alone hes still a baby. Naive, gullible idiot

well, that... true. he can be frustratingly stupid. i just hope he gets better cuz bro is one inch away of completely losing his mind.

This is quite normal for conservative places like japan. For them, relationship has their own stages. Not everything have to be done right of the bat. It takes time to be comfortable even with a partner you love and trust, especially something so inmate like sex

But that's the point I was trying to make though. If she's so uncomfortable with him that she can barely kiss him much less share a bed. She has no business living with and sharing the same space as him.
You say they are conservative by culture which is true, but her friend is living happily in a PROPER HEALTHY relationship with her man. I think it's just an issue with her based on her disability and exposure.

Just gonna throw it out there, but there are countless ways to have healthy relationships and they don't all look the same.

Well theirs isn't, it is made mention that the guys needs in the relationship aren't being met. And it seems very one sided, with him adjusting to fit her tune but not much give on her end.
I would have loved if the author made them have a proper communication about expectations before taking such a huge step. Because I feel like her inability to fulfill his needs will pop up sometime later on. Maybe while he's back in Germany, or with the introduction of another women.

I think this manga teaches us that intimacy can come in many different shapes and forms. For instance our MC is deaf/mute but she her "words" can reach people's hearts. Her and the ML's relationship feels more intimate than one that is just physically intimate couple (like the hairstylist with his casual flings). I personally think being able to understand each other, bond with their friends and family, and communicate is truly more valuable than intercourse.

Now the reason why they move in before being physically intimate is because of the time factor. Our ML is working towards going abroad and they only have some much time together. I think it's valid to increase the time they have together by moving in. Like I said earlier, they're connected on a much deeper level than just sex. Once you have a strong foundation, sex can come later (pun intended).

Agree with u she's really stupid

Did you forget that he's been an outcast his whole life? He definitely has a major inferiority complex towards his half brother. A change of location won't magically change that fact, so his fear is reasonable considering his past

Just in case this might interest you, but... the story ended only six chapters after you posted this comment XDDD. So if you came this far, you may want to close it for good?
Just a warning though, everyone is saying the ending was too abrupt and kinda bland. So even if you decide to let it pass, it won't even be such a great loss.