To anyone who needs the reminder, The person you're enchanted with is still an individual. They have a birthday, live, breathe, shit, bleed all that good stuff. They are an autonomous person like you, not just your crush. They are entitled to their agency. To love this person and to have them love you is an active decision of both parties. To maintain that love is to let go of possession and respect that person as themselves every second that passes.
DO NOT be like that blonde dumb ass, respect a person's decision, their space AND their privacy.








I hate how little focus the children have here. This would be very confusing for them. To go from a regular life to living with grandparents, not being at home or seeing their dad indefinitely. Spend more time with yr children and not putting out for a man who doesn't remember you yet. Obviously this is a difficult time for everyone and obviously he should still be nurturing his romantic relationship and caring for his spouse, but the CHILDREN. Idk man