kat.estelle's Topics (2)

Because I am a man who likes to read mlm stories? And I get frustrated when the person I project on gets fucking SA'ed. I just want to enjoy a consensual story for once. SA like this is always so unnecessary and it ruins it completely for me. Speaking as a gay man and an SA survivor. That so many stories contain rape is simply disappointing and sad. And I have the right to be upset.

Womp womp

What.

Because if we complain enough the authors will realize that shits not what we want. Sexual assault isn't cute. BL as a genre has already changed a lot because of people complaining and as times change it will continue to change.

Because rape shouldn’t be normalized? I enjoy cnc, but the key word in that is CONSENSUAL.

You just explained why people complain. Like you said a huge percentage of bl includes some kind of SA people would like to see a change.

Because complaining is my hobby

Y'all are mad because they complain about rape ??? This is the most out of touch bs I've ever read LMAO

because normal people exist, and so should normal characters.

Nothing to do with this manhuwa and you might have you read these but Sexless and Our Sunny Days don't have any sa in them. Good palette cleanser.

They're never gonna see it here on an illegal site. This discourse is for us. You want something to change then say something on the authors, publishers and hosting platforms social medias. Or read legally so you can engage in those comment sections.

huh???? you’re reading this on an illegal website where the author isn’t even getting paid for works let alone digging through the comments looking for unwanted feedback.. please be so fr

why tf are you complaining on an illegal website where the authors won’t even see it?

you act like you’re the only person thats been SA’d in the world, im also a survivor, and I know that majority of these works contain it, therefore if I’m not in a good enough mental headspace to handle stuff like that then I simply stay off the internet or go read fanfic/AO3 where they tag everything…

When I have the money available, or if it's available through legel means,I buy it. I'm not even reading this here right now. I come here for the comments lol. Here isn't the only place people complain about the content. I just meant in general, if the authors see the fans that pay for it don't like SA plots, they're be less likely to use it as a plot device.

I do. I just meant generally, not specifically on this website, that people complain or bring up criticism on SA being in BL. Of course the authors don't care majority of people think, they hate pirates. But if they see legal consumers on the right platforms complaining, hopefully they'll realize that this shit doesn't fly anymore

Thank you!! I have not. I'll definitely check them out! <3

I don't act like that. I am sorry if it souds that way. It was never my intention. I am just telling my perspective on this things. Everyone deals with trauma differently.
I just explained why I am sad. That's all. I just answered their question. And I think I am justified to be sad about the normalization and romantization of SA in mlm stories.
I am just sad. And upset. And I feel like I get to complain. That is all. Please understand that

Actually. Let me correct myself. I am sorry if I did act that way. I didn't mean for it to sound like that. Of course, I respect your way of dealing with your trauma. I don't mean to invalidate anyone's experience. I see you and every other SA survivor. And I just ask that you respect my feelings about this topic as well.

this is insane to write

Just cause we know something, doesn’t mean we like, approve or enjoy it tho (づ￣ ³￣)づ and this story in particular has a very consensual dynamic from the beginning (just think about the chapter where MC stopped as soon as Jailbait said that it hurts), that it’s just disappointing. We‘re just venting our frustration here, cause the story otherwise is so damn good and delicious