jdeoppa's Things

Genuinely breaks my heart seeing my other friends replace me w another new girl. Not saying that they can't befriend someone new, but just the subtle leaving me out, not talking to me, kicking me out of our gc is heartbreaking.

We've been friends for more or less 4 years now(our friend group) and now that a new girl just transferred to our school they're leaving me out, I'm talking: ignoring me, not including me in group photos/cropping me out, etc.

I'm not saying I don't have any other friends, it's jst that these girls are people I'm so close with, within the span of 4 years they've seen me go through my lowest of lows, and highest of highs, we have our own inside jokes, we sit(or sat?) together during classes, we hang out together, etc.


I also js found out one of the girls called me "insensitive" and an "invalidater"(idek if that's an actual word) just cause I disagreed w her when she said that it's okay for a 14yr old to date someone 4 years older than them cuz it's "just" a four year gap. I still love her nonetheless.

I've tried talking to them as group and even individually but they'd either ignore me or avoid the question to talk to other people. I haven't done anything wrong to them, nor to the new girl, in fact I've been so welcoming to the new girl, introducing her to everyone and making sure everyone doesn't get the wrong idea abt her(cuz my school likes to spread false rumors about new kids for sum reason?)


Am I being toxic or paranoid? I just want our old friendship back what should I do? Help a minor out ╥﹏╥