i've never come out, only just mentioned it in conversation if i felt it was necessary or relevant. if i felt comfortable talking about it, i did. if i didn't, i didn't. to be fair, i haven't come out in a long time - it's pretty visually obvious from the get-go. but you don't need to force yourself to 'come out' - you have all the time in the worl...... reply
lately i've been seeing a surge of people on their moral high horses shaming folks for reading & enjoying works that have problematic content - honestly so off-putting. you're here to read, not police others. seriously, get a grip. 4 reply
hi y'all, would appreciate some recs for manhwa wherein the leads act in a way that is reasonable for men their age. these don't need to be healthy/sane thought processes or behaviors, nor do the relationships need to be healthy. some examples would be Hate Mate, Yang Ilwoo and I, There are No Bad Dogs in the World, Love For Sale, Ouroboros, One Room TA, Lovesick Dog, etc. would prefer works with characters who have some baggage and, if possible, who are also working through that baggage, however imperfectly. thank you!